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submitted 1 year ago by spitz@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

It happened to me recently at work. I don't even find her physically attractive, and her personality is not what I'm into at all. But I was still somehow attracted to her - and she also was to me. She didn't like me, and I certainly am not the kind of man she goes for. It's like we had a strong connection in one area beneath the subconscious or something, but every other area was completely incompatible. Aggressively so.

Anyone else have anything similar?

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[-] Schlemmy@lemmy.ml 43 points 1 year ago

Yes, I've been with a girl like that for 2 years. My friends told me that I could get better looking women and found 8t strange I hooked up with her but my god, she got me going. Also, she was a nymphomaniac. That's the main reason we broke up. Having sex twice a day takes the fun out of it if you're not a sex addict. I encountered her a few weeks ago. She gained a lot of weight but I still wanted to screw her badly. It's totally weird.

[-] spitz@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 year ago

We are indeed a bizarre species.

[-] random_character_a@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

let me guess, neither of you use strong parfumes, so you bodies get to tell each other you'd be a good genetic mix.

[-] Schlemmy@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago

She does use a strong perfume. But it has been the same for about 20 years.

this post was submitted on 26 Aug 2023
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