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Maybe it's cuz I'm an introvert, but I realized I haven't really talk to my aunts/uncles outside of family gatherings that I was forced to go to...

Like idk, older generation feels so weird... like they feel kinda intimidating...

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[-] fizzle@quokk.au 6 points 1 month ago

It depends.

As you get older these kinds of relationships become more important because... for most people they're one of very few constants in life. As in, friends and even partners come and go but from the day I'm born to the day I die, my ancestors will be my ancestors, and I share that in common with extended family.

That doesn't mean you have to talk to them or keep in touch with them or go to family gatherings. It just means that even after 3 decades of not speaking to a particular uncle or aunt, they still have that background and that title.

To some people that might not have much meaning and that's fine, but to me it does mean something, although I'm not sure what exactly.

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