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submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by Cantaloupe877@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

The Fediverse is huge and overwhelming to a newcomer, with many different types and each with servers to pick from. Which ones would you suggest checking out or avoiding?

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[-] gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 month ago

Blahaj.zone we're chill AF here

[-] Psythik@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

I don't like that you can't downvote, though.

[-] FunkyStuff@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 month ago

I've only been outside of Hexbear (where there also are no downvotes) for a week and I hate having downvotes. Instead of people replying to something they disagree with with evidence and counterarguments, people just downvote and move on. They really shouldn't be used to downvote comments people disagree with (because that just promotes groupthink), ideally they'd just be used to downvote spam and low effort stuff; but moderators can take care of that, so what's the point?

[-] samus12345@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 month ago

I prefer that the community have some say in deciding what comments are objectionable rather than relying on mods for every little thing.

[-] manuallybreathing@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 month ago

If something is objectional you should say something about it, it's one thing for bots and spam, but if you see someone posting an unforced error, you should tell them they're wrong

not to invoke leddit, but you should be able to communicate with other human beings

[-] Inkstainthebat@pawb.social 0 points 1 month ago

Wait what that's not a thing on blahaj??

[-] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 month ago

Nor on Hexbear, or a few other large instances. In the case of Hexbear and Blahaj, it's to protect queer users from being unfairly downvoted, as well as to encourage discussion over silent downvoting.

[-] Imaginary_Stand4909@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

OHHH THAT'S why Voyager gives me an error.

Sigh, these are the things that might drive people away from Lemmy and Piefed. Lemmy devs are tankies, Piefed devs are weirdly puritanical, and instances won't tell you they don't allow downvotes.

[-] Flames5123@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 month ago

Exactly. I look at downvotes on articles as a kind of fact curator. If an article has 50/50, you know it’s gotta be wrong.

[-] FunkyStuff@lemmy.ml -2 points 1 month ago

People also just downvote stuff they disagree with. If you use the downvotes on a post or comment as the indicator of whether it's correct or not you'll just end up believing only the things the majority of the users believe are true, instead of using evidence or any kind of facts.

[-] Flames5123@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 month ago

9 day old account on ml. Stop trolling

[-] FunkyStuff@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 month ago

One day this account will be 2 years old and its posts will be recognized for their greatness. But until then, it'll just be a sockpuppet troll account. Very sad.

[-] FunkyStuff@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 month ago

I really wish Blahaj was federated with Hexbear :(

[-] hector@lemmy.today -1 points 1 month ago

Are you though? Not as enlightened as you may think.

[-] MadhuGururajan@programming.dev 1 points 1 month ago

you have never said why it's not as they claim. How did blahaj lemmy hurt you?

[-] gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 month ago
[-] manuallybreathing@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 month ago

Responding to someone saying 'you're not as enlightened as you think' with some drug sitgmatisation, on point

come down from your ivory tower bud

[-] hector@lemmy.today -1 points 1 month ago

Moderation should be honest, and without a clear set of rules with an honest way to check it, the fediverse won't displace the big social medias that themselves lose users because of dishonest moderation.

[-] gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 1 month ago

What the fuck are you on about?

This feels like you're vagueposting about something entirely unrelated.

Nobody knows wtf you're talking about mate. You just sound unhinged.

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