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What hill are you willing to die on even if no one in your life agrees with you? (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 3 days ago by Zonefive@sh.itjust.works to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Water usage is probably my biggest. Living in a high desert, my wife and MIL see no problem with filling one side of the sink with hot soapy water to wash a few dishes because “that’s just how I’ve always done it”, to watering the grass and plants for hours. All of this makes me mental.

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[-] leavenotrace@feddit.nu 0 points 2 days ago

you were polite to them, so let them be polite to you by acknowledging your expression of gratitude

But it's not an expression of gratitude in this context unless they did something beyond their job duties. Thanking them is just the universal polite way of ending the exchange and most customers do it. This interaction is routine and necessary to complete a purchase, and customers aren't expressing genuine gratitude just because the cashier did their job.

this post was submitted on 14 Mar 2026

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