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I finally figured it out!
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actually this is what the captain wants to see in his gay lover, mulan
Still waiting on the tragic romance version of Mulan, where they don't get together at the end because falling in love with boy-Mulan helped Shang finally come to terms with being gay.
I'd also take the version where he ends up with Mulan's horny grandma instead. Either or.
Okay so I'm familiar with transbian (trans and siberian), right? Is there a cool word like that for ftm and gay?
I mean, – so long as we're defining it in terms of trans Siberians – I don't see why trans Siberian men couldn't use it, also ;)
They have a fantastic orchestra
The word is trans-men.
As in: the number of trans-men that I've been hooking up with lately has made me concerned about accidental pregnancy for the first time in my life as a cis gay man.
transmen does not mean gay. try again
It's queer not somehow not automatically assumed when my example explicitly states men hooking up w men?
i'm saying your example is wrong. it does not automatically assume when you're a transman you're going to be a man who hooks up with man. you're just reading your own preferences into it because that's what you're looking for
what is the word for ftm who hook up with women then? is heterosexuality that terrifying to you? or do they not exist like bi men and intersex folk
what
Apparently according to eldavi if you're ftm you have to love dick, not pussy.
edit: i realized just now that i could be misinterpreting eldavi but that would be admitting trans exclusionism and fuck that.
I understand where you're coming from but lots of us queer folks don't think of attraction in terms of genitals, and eldavi didn't say you had to like particular genitals either. Back to your original point, transbians don't only date other transbians, many date cisbians. Trans people who only date trans people use the label t4t.
So, there is not a cool word for gay Trans men. But y'all want to infodump at me so I miss that fact. Got it.