You think Iran wants this war? You think they're welcoming their country getting laid waste because it means they get to kill some Americans? They're not the ones who started it and they don't have the power to stop it. You want it stopped? Maybe focus solely on the US instead of this both sides victim blaming bullshit.

If you were a teacher you'd probably be the kind who sees a kid beating up another kid and suspends them both because the kid getting beat up tried swinging at the attacker after they already started beating them up and "all violence is wrong."