How do you stop arguing with people on social media? (lemmy.world)

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Whenever I see a comment on social media that I think is wrong, I feel the need to correct it. These arguments can go on for days, even weeks, and if I don’t win the argument, I get overly fixated on it, wondering where I went wrong and so on.

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[-] IlmariGanander@lemmy.wtf 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Self discipline.

Once I learned the skill of purposely removing myself from certain online things...world of Warcraft and social media arguing were two big ones...I got a lot of my life back.

It really just comes down to self discipline and self control, which are necessary to learn if you want to actually mature and grow up.

Edit: you could also consider it the art of learning boundaries.

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