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Red Means No / 'That' CNC kink party Incident Log
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this post was submitted on 28 May 2026
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forgot to include the manual : https://archive.ph/cSDnZ
i know i'm not the target audience but my god the drudgery of organising ethicalseeming orgies, and consensual rape parties in particular, makes me feel many feelings. something sisyphean but the boulder is made out of gender roles and power dynamics and the slope is made of ... libido? the rationalists might well be the people i trust the least in the world to deal with it.
This does show that female rationalists can organize complicated events when they really want to. I don't think any of the male rationalists we talk about would be able, although there are probably a few people at Lighthaven whose names I don't know who could keep an office job that was not also their polycule.
I would be fascinated to hear from kinksters who have run similar events.
They are keen on controlling contact and fluid-borne infections, but don't talk about airborne infection control. Rationalists have a "COVID is over and RSV sounds like a Linux distro" party line which separates them from alienated nerds I know.
Events I attend which combine alcohol and a risky physical activity have a one-drink maximum, or once you drink alcohol no more playing for you, not a subjective "Don’t drink too much."
I've never been to such an event, let alone tried to organize one, but I've socially known various people who've done them (kink but not CNC, to my knowledge) and a few sex workers who did kink professionally, and my guess is that alcohol just would not be allowed. You don't do Jägerbombs before trying a climbing wall, and you don't bring a substance that impairs judgment and worsens coordination to your sex party, for goodness' sake.