you don't have to share all the time but maybe now and then it's okay. i don't really understand the self-censorship though, i dont even think about oversharing most of the time.

my closest friends, brothers really, went from poverty, poor town, lots of horrible personal tragedies, single mother, didn't even finish 9th grade to making well over six figures. finally they can get their rotting teeth looked at, eat well, do fun things, buy whatever they wanted from back in the day or whatever they want now. don't feel bad about coming up just dont punch down and be a piece of shit as you do it. im happy for you. be careful of lifestyle inflation, i sure eat out a lot more now that i can afford it.