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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by Vampire@hexbear.net to c/chapotraphouse@hexbear.net

I posted this post apparently nine days ago and the way my mind works is it brews ideas below the surface and then they pop up fully formed.

Countries need families. Countries need stable family units. Countries need babies. People aren't doing this enough because whippersnappers on their iBooks etc. The problem is real.

What if the state has a registry of single people, and invites about 100 of them โ€“ matched for age and other basic compatibility factors โ€“ to the same event on one night. They do speed-dating, get through 50 people in a night, 2-3 minutes per person. Then they give the thumbs-up or thumbs-down to each person.

At the end of the night, people will have an average of at least a few (maybe 2-3, pessimistically) potential matches. But do it every Saturday of the summer, and you have 40+

And then they follow up with a long-form date. Not sure if that's also state-run, I'll need to check the budget.

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[-] regul@hexbear.net 20 points 1 year ago

Said it last time. Will say it this time. People are dating plenty. They're just not having kids because it's too expensive. If the state wants people to have kids then government-run speed dating is not going to do it.

[-] Vampire@hexbear.net 9 points 1 year ago

People are dating plenty.

They're not.

[-] regul@hexbear.net 19 points 1 year ago

Maybe they're just not dating you.

[-] Vampire@hexbear.net 10 points 1 year ago
[-] blight@hexbear.net 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

you think you can fix general alienation with state run speed dating? one of the problems in neoliberalism is that you only have free time to spend with at best one person, meaning that relationship becomes overburdened. people need friends first and foremost

[-] Vampire@hexbear.net 14 points 1 year ago

one of the problems in neoliberalism is that you only have free time to spend with at best one person

You would have time for more people if each relationship lasted 2 minutes.

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