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I'm in a suburb of Chicago Illinois now.
I can't speak for Chicago in particular, but the suburbs of any major city tend to be fairly isolated. You said you don't drink, but I still might suggest going to bars anyway, since that's where most socializing happens. Look for a barcade in your area perhaps, sometimes they host trivia nights and that can be a great way to meet people, even if you're sober.
Not sure which suburb you're in, but going indoor rock climbing opens up a lot of opportunities. They have group climbing, lessons, and sign up sheets to find partners
Well the suburbs suck so that's starting with a penalty. They tend to be very isolating.
Look at Meetup or similar for stuff you want to do. Board game clubs, book clubs, hiking, programming.
If you like music, go to shows.
Look up stuff happening in the city. There's probably museum tours, free classes, free shows, lots of stuff.
Start a YouTube channel explaining household technologies in depth