Lesbians of lemmy, how do you introduce your SO to other people without getting them confused for just a friend? (lemmy.one)

submitted 11 months ago by catsup@lemmy.one to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

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Since a lot of women have started to call their female friends "girlfriends", I have to wonder how women with actual girlfriends have been dealing with this lol

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[-] intensely_human@lemm.ee 26 points 11 months ago

“This person is my lover Karen”

Just introduce them as your partner. Lesbians are so habitually entrenched in hiding their sexuality.

I have so many pairs of “friends” come in appliance shopping. Gay men come in, it’s “This is my husband Mike”. Gay women come in and it’s like “This is my friend Paula. She helps me pick out appliances and definitely doesn’t live with me”.

I don’t pry, because I’m just selling appliances. But it’s pretty obvious.

[-] Lennnny@lemmy.world 6 points 11 months ago

Robert Dyas?

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