No worries, I unker d never follow these kinds of "naming" stuff (and most abbr) so don't really care. Haha. A quick google tells me wizard refers to people who are really good at something. Doesn't sound match the context of relationship to me. lol. I assume it refers to people who lacks people skill? Or prefers spending most time themself.

Anyway, I think some older man with kids probably don't mind anymore as they might be just looking for a soulmate that can get old together. Unless they playboy lar.. xD