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woke batman rises (hexbear.net)

honestly gircel and halimede are like the only twitter accounts im sad to not be able to read.

ID: A screenshot of a twitter post, by faith (@girlcel_)

woke Batman: that's the difference between you and me, kid; I have a code - i NEVER misgender my enemies, that'd make me as bad as them. it ain't right

Transfem Nightwing: you called me bro 2 hours ago

woke Batman:[yelling] bro is Gender Neutral dude, you fucking Words Fascist

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[-] JohnBrownNote@hexbear.net 4 points 9 months ago

My go to when cis guys say it is has always been "Do you fuck dudes then?"

i used to know a dude i was interested in but they were aro/ace so there's some subset of dudes i'd be into but my partner attraction is heavily informed by typical secondary characteristics and i'm agender myself so i'm not even sure how to usefully label my orientation.

I would address my cis-afab partner and her girlfriends sat at a table as "hey dudes" some portion of the time instead of "hey guys", so you tell me if that means i was fucking a dude. i'm not a language doctor but it seems like some usages are contextually gender neutral and others aren't. shrug-outta-hecks

[-] Awoo@hexbear.net 3 points 9 months ago

some usages are contextually gender neutral and others aren't

I can agree with this. Issue is that, for trans people that are also a little twitchy about it, those contextually gender-neutral situations lose their contextual neutrality.

[-] JohnBrownNote@hexbear.net 3 points 9 months ago

and of course it can be use aggressively to invalidate, like neutral pronouns.

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