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[-] ettyblatant@lemmy.world 2 points 8 months ago

When : person A and person B are coworkers, or family, or otherwise established with each other. Person A asks me directly to do something. I have no reason not to, so I comply. Person B then comes up to me, IRATE, does not just ask me why I did such a thing, but lectures and belittles me and my judgment as well. Person A does not step up, and if I "throw person A under the bus" then person B doubles down on why I still shouldn't be doing it.

This has happened to me since I was a child. I am now 37, and ultimately just don't give a fuck if someone asks me to do anything weird unless it's in fucking writing. I'm so pissed off even writing this AAAAAAAAAAAA FUCK YOU SHAUNA

this post was submitted on 19 Mar 2024

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