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The truth incels dont want you to know (hexbear.net)

submitted 10 months ago by autismdragon@hexbear.net to c/chapotraphouse@hexbear.net

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[-] HexbearGPT@hexbear.net 9 points 10 months ago

have you seen instagram influencers? they are.

[-] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 40 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

I feel like influencers are less than 1% of the population. Besides you're talking about a job that attracts shallow people specifically.

[-] dependencyinjection@discuss.tchncs.de 24 points 10 months ago

As the other person says, everybody ain’t an influencer.

Perhaps, you should get off Instagram and interact with regular people and not vapid influencers.

[-] HexbearGPT@hexbear.net 2 points 10 months ago

i'm not on instagram. but everyone else seems to be.

i'm not attractive. my brother is. when we walk around together girls look at him. they never look at me. it's ok i am married to an awesome lady. but it's pretty obvious that girls like hot guys just as much as guys like hot girls. and that everyone just settles for what is obtainable at the end of the day.

what most people do is find someone with a personality they can tolerate who is as hot as they can attract to themselves.

there is such a thing as pretty privilege.

[-] dependencyinjection@discuss.tchncs.de 6 points 10 months ago

Hot is subjective my guy.

There are as many girls that are not as you described there. You just have to look in different places.

[-] HexbearGPT@hexbear.net 3 points 10 months ago

hot is subjective but there are general trends among large majoritires of men and women of who they consider attractive.

[-] infuziSporg@hexbear.net 2 points 10 months ago

Some years back a friend of mine proposed a model where there are various different aggregates of personality and physical traits. Within each type, people see what confirms their preferences or dispositions to be "hot", and what goes against these concepts to be "not hot". As a result, there's a consistent clustering of people, and a symmetry in how they order each other, where if you see people in cluster A as a 9, it'll look like hot people getting with hot people, while people in cluster B might each see the cluster A people as a 2 and vice versa. Relativism of attraction with consistency.