What are the advantages and disadvantages of being in a relationship? (lemmy.nz)

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[-] Thorny_Insight@lemm.ee 4 points 3 months ago

Thanks! I actually am in a relationship right now and it's an open one so she doesn't need to completely live without sex but I still can't help but to feel like I'm not doing my part. It's just one of those things that don't really have a perfect solution to it. Not having sex doesn't feel right but forcing myself into it to please her isn't right either especially knowing that it's what I've done in my previous relationships which only has made me resent sex even more.

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