Men, how do you deal with the misandry online. Does it affect you mentally? (lemm.ee)

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Seen this on reddit and thought it was an interesting question that largely is not talked about.

It is largely an issue that gets sidelined and hidden because people don't want to talk about it or accept that it exists. Hopefully this gets some traction to break that marginalisation.

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[-] ogmios@sh.itjust.works 7 points 3 months ago

It seems men are worthless in a lot of people’s eyes

That's just a simple truth of the world that all men have to learn: Strangers have no reason to care about you unless you have something valuable to offer them. It might sound harsh at first, but you learn the wisdom of it as you grow, as it also frees you from obligations to people you can't necessarily trust, which is critical when your social role is to protect those closest to you. It imparts upon the man a fundamental sense of urgency to live and let live as much as possible, and to pursue positive personality traits so that one can benefit from their relationship with their neighbours.

[-] Cryophilia@lemmy.world 1 points 3 months ago

Strangers have no reason to care about you unless you have something valuable to offer them.

Unless you're in the top 2% of men looks-wise. Then you get ALL the attention.

[-] ogmios@sh.itjust.works -1 points 3 months ago

Sex appeal is something you can offer, either by women who lust for it, or men who admire it.

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