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Hmm.
There's an psychological effect that people who grow up alongside someone generally aren't attracted to them to the extent that they might be to someone else.
Can't remember the name of the phenomenon.
kagis
The Westermarck effect.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Westermarck_effect
You'd expect the Westermark effect to decrease attraction for someone that a person grew up alongside, but not to decrease appeal of other people who are siblings having sex.
I'm not aware of any formal study as to the effect, but I'd assume that some of the appeal of what people consider kinks derives directly from the fact that something is, in fact, taboo. Like, let's say that we had no incest taboo in present-day society -- and that hasn't been a universal -- then I'm not sure that "incest porn" or the like would be a thing.
kagis
https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/countries-where-incest-is-legal
Of course, legal prohibitions aren't exactly the same thing as having a cultural incest taboo.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Incest_taboo
I'd guess that to test that, one could probably run a study, come up with some kind of quantitative measure of how intensely "taboo" incest is in a given society, and try to see whether there is correlation with frequency of incest pornography.
EDIT: Hmm. You know, that makes me think that if a correlation between cultural taboo and popularity of a kink exists, maybe you could use the effect in reverse as a metric for hard-to-measure cultural taboos.
Like, okay. In 2024, there are no legal prohibitions on miscegenation. Like, if someone of Race A and someone of Race B want to have a kid, the law isn't going to stop them. But there's definitely some level of cultural taboo floating around out there. I'm pretty sure that it's going to be hard to get someone to fess up to their views on that.
But...you can get aggregate data on frequency at which people are consuming interracial pornography. If you figure that the kink derives from the cultural taboo, then a sociologist has got themelves a pretty interesting metric right there on racial views.
That certainly was a lot of words.
What does kagis mean?
googles = "uses the Google search engine to search for something"
kagis = "uses the Kagi search engine to search for something"
Oh lol. Here I was thinking it was Latin or Greek
Oh, yes, I guess "kagis" does sound a bit like that.
adjusts monocle
Clearly I need to insert the occasional Latin phrase between paragraphs. Maybe with some of those neat inter-paragraph typography ornaments.
🙛 fortis est veritas 🙙
Carthago delenda est
kagis indeedis my manis
Is that Latin for Kagis Deez Nuts?
So it's the new version of "bing it"?
I never understood why bing didn't hire The Rock as its advertiser, and have him say "Just bring it", and then some tiny pencil neck geek says "Actually, I just bing it!"
And then he punches The Rock in the mouth, and puts him in the Sharpshooter, and The Rock throws up blood and passes out and dies, and the little guy has a championship belt that says "Bing" in the center.
And then the next commercial he could do the same to Connar McGregger.
And then whoever else.
Julia Child?
Kagi is google, but you have to pay for it.
I'd put it as "Google is Kagi, but you pay via them data-mining and profiling you instead of an up-front fee."
Well of course you would. You paid for a search engine. You're gonna justify that any way you possibly can. There are other free search engines out there, you know.