I'm just skimming this thread, but paragraph 2 is basically fact. I'm on my second synology box, the UI is simple and I want reliability, I don't want shit to break because of a git push on some bullshit tool. But recently I snatched a Lenovo server and threw proxmox and Debian on it, and also got a vps.

The synology is actually pretty capable, especially if it can do docker, and if you are willing to venture into (as a beginner) copy/pasting commands from the internet into the task scheduler as a half-assed way to get at the terminal, it can do literally everything that I want. But I'm a geek, why should I keep a stable, reliable system as my only machine? :p

My synology does files, some docker stuff. Lenovo does a couple docker stuff, BOINC since it's just idling most of the time, and docker for game and related hosting on my vps. Hell, this entire thing could be 'just add a network folder, and install docker and dockge/portainer'.

Though (paragraph 3) I tried and didn't like TrueNAS. Maybe it's because the synology does it already, I was just exploring, but it has that 'foss feel' where you have no idea what you are doing, even when you know what all the pieces do, and it just kinda is like 'here you go, figure it out' and leaves. I remember the UI being equally... 'designed by a programmer' let's say. It might be powerful but oof, slick it ain't.