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What’s the worst date you’ve ever had, and why was it so awful? (lemmy.world)

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[-] weeeeum@lemmy.world 22 points 1 month ago

I cannot begin to imagine the environment she grew up in, or if she's actually neurotic. Where in the world do you learn of using direct painful stimulus as your "go-to" form of communication? Also massive red flag when people say "That's how all men/women act!" In response to problematic behavior. I've gotten that from the most toxic people I've ever met.

I'm not sure if you were just horny, but kudos to being able to withstand that.

[-] CookieOfFortune@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago

Wonder if she had just gotten out of a relationship and she was trying to recreate the same thing with a new person (which probably never works).

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