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Get the frozen pre-made meal or just make it yourself? (lemmy.world)

submitted 2 weeks ago by psion1369@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

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I have this argument with my wife often. I like to cook, and for me cooking is more than taking frozen meatballs and dumping them into a pan full of jar pasta sauce. I would rather make the sauce, maybe have some meatballs made in advance. My wife seems to think that pre-made stuff or mixes are the way to go. I would rather just make pancakes scratch, which isn't hard, where she would rather I just open the mix, add water, and make the food. But I do agree that having a frozen lasagna is better than taking the full effort when I just want to get dinner going. So where are your eat the pre-made vs make it from scratch?

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[-] Nomad@infosec.pub 5 points 2 weeks ago

Yeah maybe she might be a little overreaching there? Forcing someone to always make (and eat) the thing you prefer is not a healthy relationship. Time to compromise.

[-] Vanth@reddthat.com 4 points 2 weeks ago

With OPs tendency to trickle in less flattering details only after 2-3 comments in, I'm skeptical she's "forcing" him to do anything. This is a one-sided perspective from someone intentionally devaluing his spouse's perspective.

[-] Nomad@infosec.pub 1 points 2 weeks ago

Might be. Still, recommending OP compromises with his partner.

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