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submitted 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) by dustbunnies@hexbear.net to c/neurodiverse@hexbear.net

jk, of course. honestly feels a little shitty to make this joke, but I know she's not on Hexbear and it helps me feel better about this situation, so 🤷😂

jfc, it is genuinely shocking to understand this as her impression of me – just not at all the social feedback that I am used to

cannot tell you how many times I have been told I come off bitchy and c*nty and self-righteous – that sentence was genuinely astounding and I am still reeling, hence the post

lea-think

officially AuDHD, with suggestion to seek OCD help as well

if you've been assessed, how did you feel about your results? did it take you a year to fully assimilate them? 😂 feeling like it's gonna take me at least that long to really take all of this in

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[-] mathemachristian@hexbear.net 7 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

That is a lot if self-doxxing!! You just posted incedible amounts of personal information, medical information and very intimate details about your entire life!! Please reconsider if you want to share this much info with complete strangers!

I'm talking about the [redacted] section in particular

[-] dustbunnies@hexbear.net 4 points 3 weeks ago

it didn't seem that way to me because very little of that information is available elsewhere – I told her things I've not told anyone but my husband, and it didn't seem like it would be possible to doxx me with stuff not otherwise connected to my identity – and was in general enough terms to not feel particularly revealing, but I know I'm not in a great place for good judgement right now, so I deleted it

[-] mathemachristian@hexbear.net 7 points 3 weeks ago

It's your info to do with what you please and I hope you get to a better place. I definitely do not want to discourage you from posting your experience(s). The devil with doxxing is in the details however and it's the sum of all the little details that paints a picture.

Posted by someone who is very prone to oversharing on the internet.

[-] ReadFanon@hexbear.net 2 points 1 week ago

The devil with doxxing is in the details however and it's the sum of all the little details that paints a picture.

I posted this comment a few days ago and you're 100% correct about that.

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