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Is this romantic or a red flag?
(lemmy.world)
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Yeah. Who would trust to give someone else video evidence that could be used to ruin their entire life? That's crazy.
Yeah, I don't understand what they're getting out of it. Here's my pros/cons list:
Pros:
Cons:
That doesn't seem very balanced to me... Instead of mutually assured destruction (assuming this is reciprocated), just be a good BF/GF? Why isn't that enough?
I think it's honestly just a test and the person does actually believe those things but is saying it as a "joke" to see how far they can push it with their new partner. So the biggest pro would be "did I find someone equally as racist and shitty as me and if so, score", I guess?