I'm so glad to see that this has gotten so far. When I saw Ross' video on it I thought it was probably over. I hope some good change will come of this in the future.

Fighting Oligopoly is not a "boomer complaint" they want you to say that because it legitimizes their hostile tactics and takeover.

When you're Nonbinary every bathroom feels like this, not because you don't know which is which but because you don't know which choice is more wrong or will get you in more trouble.

In favor of doing this, but keep the old posts locked without removing them so people know what happened and what led up to this.

So let me get this straight, you think that I'm a rightoid because I disagree with you and would never want to share a server with you because you bullied and scared someone into deleting their account? Go fuck yourself Phillp I have nothing more to say to you. I didn't like you when I met you and I like you even less now.

Quite amusing that Cat deleted their account though. Exactly the sort of behavior you’d expect from someone just innocently posting content, right?

Because an admin threatening to ban you for being too active is surely something that makes you feel warm and welcome there. /s
This is the kind of reductive, uncharitable take you see on the VAC forums on Steam, I'm surprised you're expressing such a baseless bad-faith claim here about said person, not a good look for you.

I'm not surprised they deleted their account upon threatening to be banned for being too active, I would probably do the same thing. Especially with my past experiences with @PhilipTheBucket@ponder.cat, he seems like a pompous uptight control freak. Not the kind of person I want having access to my email address and my last known IP logins.

If you don't like me saying any of this about you @PhilipTheBucket@ponder.cat you know exactly what to do about it 🔨

I've never posted there before but it seems like they are a legitimately terrible instance, don't blame yourself.

Since you're an admin you're in a better position than most people since you can ban then unban yourself using another admin account to remove their ban of you if you really want to. It's seen as sleezy to do that but awful.systems is sleezy too, so maybe justified?

Why do people get her name wrong so often? Is there something I'm missing?

If you want to ping them you have to do it as a link like this @Dasus@lemmy.world Just @ing their username doesn't work yet. You'll also have to do it as a new comment since edits won't notify them.

Come Mr Taliban, tally me banana.

Sounds like you want a Distributed/Decentralized service like Nostr instead of a Federated service like Lemmy, you should join there instead, I'm sure you'd be right at home there.