[-] Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 days ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I do too, now.

What bugs me is now whenever the term trucker is used, especially by Canadian news outlets, I pull in all of these associations that don't necessarily have any bearing on or relation to the facts at hand. And (the part where I might just be losing my mind/being paranoid) it sort of feels deliberate.

I recently encountered someone that really seemed like they were prodding for how easily I could be influenced to agree with or engage in some really wacky shit. It was a very similar feeling to when I see these terms. And I'm just trying to figure out when and if that feeling, when it pops up in a media context or just irl talking with your craftier brand of crazies, is justified or just paranoia.

Sorry - doesn't really have that much to do with the article, the word in this context just triggered that same feeling. And this whole "how to tell when you're being influenced and what to watch for, while not succumbing to paranoia or just taking comfort in your personal biases" thing has been something rolling around in my brain the past couple of weeks.

I also know that I'm part of a demographic (at the moment) that has some pretty wacky stuff targeted at them online (lot of manosphere stuff, for example, finds great targets in recently separated/divorced dudes in algorithmic media formats), which lends more personal interest to the topic. Idk, might just need to touch grass more.

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submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.works to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

J'aime << tabarnak >>

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Pretty sure it is based on some of the output, just checking for community-level compliance purposes when and if I turn photos into weird shit.

This option:

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Life has decided to unconsensually fuck me and the people I care about up the ass. I could use some stories about the joy and wins of my fellow Fediverse users.

Idk, I always thought of it as a modern take on Walden . A cautionary tale for those folks who get really hyped up about a life in the bush who forget the crucial fact that Thoreau was on a friend's property and got more meaningful support from people than the book really lets on.

One of those "Yes, lots of people feel like you do, AP English guy, but don't think you'll make it on vibes alone and not die like a dumbass" kind of things. Appreciated it differently at 16 and 20.

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Been re-reading The Canada Chronicles by Matthew Jackson recently, which is an account of some guy's hitchhiking adventures over a four year period in the 90s in my country. Fun read, made me wonder if anyone here as any stories they want to share (will also accept shout outs for someone else's cool hitchhiking story).

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Suppose this is mostly an excuse to write out the following, but question to the group: how do you get the most benefit out of mental health days?

I'm in a very stressful spot at the moment, though all products of temporary circumstances: there are a lot of high stress things going on with work; I have to arrange travel to a stupid 'rah rah' meeting in another city that's mostly just going to put me behind on time sensitive tasks next week; I'm in a weird place with separation from my ex (a kind of double-think required - trying to stay even-keel and kind while being very, very angry at the circumstances. Can't freely pick up and 100% leave for several months, constantly questioning if this is actually the right thing to do or if I'm just fucking myself over); I'm about to do a house-sit for a few months as a temporary measure this week, but will need to return about 3 months after; I'm trying to quit weed again 'cause I think I'll need the improved clarity of mind to get through the stuff necessary over the next several months, but dealing with withdrawl symptoms around sleep; and generally just unclear on how I want to live this new life path at a time when it sort of feels like any day now, bombs might start going off over my country, and its hard to know how realistic that worry is.

Anyway, I woke up feeling exhausted this morning with a knot in my stomach, signed on, did 30 minutes of work and decided I really needed some rest. My team is pretty understanding with sick days so that shouldn't be a problem, and I count myself very lucky for that. I curled up under a blanket and put on one of those slow TV train travel videos and slipped in and out of sleep. It's been a few hours and I already feel significantly better, but now I'm not sure what I want to do. Tidy up? Start picking over stuff I intend to claim for the divorce? Just keep resting? Do some push-ups?

Idk - know this obviously looks different for everyone, but what do other folks do when they take a sick day as a mental health day to try and recharge, so they can keep fighting the suck tomorrow?

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punk in profile (sh.itjust.works)

I'm under no illusions about its quality whatsoever, but I still kinda dig this.

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Purple Knight [756×1967] (sh.itjust.works)
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Thinking stickers for bands, odd websites, self-promoting artists, events, etc.

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submitted 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) by Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.works to c/music@lemmy.world
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One of these days I'll graduate to a real art software tool (and learn how to draw better). Today is not that day.

[-] Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.works 47 points 8 months ago

I...simply don't know what to make of this. I'm a guy who finds himself thinking about the male loneliness epidemic a lot, and never in terms of finding a romantic/sexual partner. It's always about solid platonic bonds outside of that and kin, and factors that make those harder to find and maintain these days.

Is this just a shitpost and I'm too stupid to get the joke?

That user's name? Jesus Christ.

Honestly, this was the comment that exposed me (regular office rube) to binary search as a concept and it is so. fucking. helpful.

Someone got really drunk and was in the bathroom willing to take all comers at a work function.

It was a shame, I liked working with them.

You kid, but as an Canadian Anglophone, this is what I do any time I have to send an email to someone with a French name with an accented character.

Yes, I know the special character menu is a thing, but I have shit to do.

I am reasonably certain I have been to the theatre where she went down on that guy.

This is the most interesting fact about my life.

I don't know what it is, but aside from the side effects of nicotine addiction and access problems in these spaces(which, whatever, I get it), transportation hubs (airports, train stations, ferry terminals, etc.) are my favourite places to be.

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