Right so let's say you have a transfem who is into cis women - that's an example of how gender and sex intersect. You could have one person who identifies as a woman but let's say hasn't had any sex change operation yet and they are attracted to another woman (born that way).

That's a lesbian relationship, at least in my opinion, but by your standard you're saying that would be defined as a heterosexual relationship.

I agree people are born gay or straight or whatever in between.

Besides gender is basically the sex a person identifies as.

You're trying to make this rigid box with sections for different genders and sex and that's just not how it is. That's why the label has expanded to include more than just "lesbian, gay, bisexual" because it's meant to be inclusive of everyone.

There isn't anything wrong with inclusivity being acknowledged via the lgbtqia+ acronym, I'm not sure why you think it's a bad thing.

Anyways I said my piece and won't reply again just letting you know. Have a good day!

That's weird because I've definitely changed the sexual orientation I've identified with over the years.

Nobody chooses to be trans. Idiot.

Hey asshole, you said TQIA+ isn't about sexual attraction. What does the A in TQIA+ stand for??

Flat out wrong. Some people may be attracted to a particular sex, but they are very much in the minority. Call me when you meet a straight guy who is into a trans man with a big bushy beard and a dad bod.

No, no, the asshole was just full of shit, telling an outright lie that's a common bit of disinformation used by bigots.

This isn't a thing where you're going to achieve what you think you will. Might as well not waste your time

No need to.

Blatant transphobic horse shit is horse shit. And if you don't know that it's horse shit, that would make you the biggest moron on the planet, and I'm not going to insult morons by comparing you to them.