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[-] seemefeelme@infosec.pub 29 points 6 days ago

Tried something like this. Recruiters told me the gap didn't look good and I should lie about needing that time off for my mental health. The 1st class honours degree I was told would allow me to walk into a job was deemed essentially worthless since I had only around 2 year's industry experience. Took me months to get another role offered - a 15k paycut and overall a major downgrade - which I had to take to pay the rent. 0/10, would not recommend.

[-] Comment105@lemm.ee 27 points 6 days ago

the gap didn’t look good

Yeah, live your entire fucking life to be attractive to that guy.

The only thing worth learning from this is that if there's so little need for work to be done that "having gaps in the resume" is enough that they'd rather go without, then the work does not need to be done.

It's beyond time for UBI.

[-] TranscendentalEmpire@lemm.ee 9 points 6 days ago

Yeah.... I don't really think anyone really cares about anyone's education anymore, at least not past your first employer.

I have to spend a lot of time teaching people in their residencies at my job, and where they went school doesn't really bring anything to the table. In fact, a lot of the people who went to fancy private medical schools were either overwhelmed by having to talk to our impoverished patient population, or didn't ever develop healthy ways to mitigate interpersonal conflict.

[-] NewSocialWhoDis@lemm.ee 9 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

I think the problem might be how quickly you quit to do it. It takes a good year to train a new person to be productive. If they only get about a year of productivity from you after training you for a year (and a junior level amount of productivity at that), then it's not worth their time and effort to invest in you. If you did it every 5-7 years instead, it would probably go over better. That's long enough to see whole projects through to completion and then just take a break in between.

There's also the issue of how long you take off. If you take off 6 months to a year, it's less likely that new technology comes in and changes everything than if you take off 2 years. Ex: 2 years from today you can expect huge swaths of industries to adopt using AI tools in day-to-day tasks. Another ex: I'm an engineer, not a CS person. I've helped design computer systems, but sophisticated coding isn't the main part of my job. In the last 3ish years I've seen every system I've encountered switch to containerization.

[-] Tattorack@lemmy.world 20 points 6 days ago

You'd have to find a job that pays enough for this lifestyle. And with the kind of resume this produces, it's a pipe dream.

[-] coldasblues@sh.itjust.works 2 points 5 days ago

Nah, you just need to adjust life styles. I've been doing this exact thing for five years now in the IT industry. I rely on contracts for full employment for 8 months and relax for 4 months.

[-] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 13 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Boomer here - that's pretty much how I managed my software career. Do a contract job for 6 mos to a year, then do theatre until I needed to work again. Had to go back to fulltime work once I got married and had kids. I miss those days tho. Also, fuck your tiny stereotyping brain if you think a whole generation has the same likes and dislikes.

[-] WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 4 points 5 days ago

Man I love you! (Platonically, of course).

[-] usrtrv@sh.itjust.works 25 points 6 days ago

Healthcare costs in the US is usually the blocker for me when I think about extended stays as a hermit.

[-] chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 6 days ago

One solution to this has been, be a resident of a blue state and get on medicaid, though it's looking like that might not be viable going forward...

[-] blarghly@lemmy.world 7 points 6 days ago

Go somewhere with cheap healthcare when not working

[-] Blackmist@feddit.uk 13 points 6 days ago

"Sounds like we're paying these guys too much"

[-] FlapJackFlapper@lemm.ee 14 points 6 days ago

If you're ever on the backpacking circuit you'll meet people like that. They work just long enough to save up for their next trip.

[-] Couldbealeotard@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago

But also, they travel frugally, not having a luxurious lifestyle between earning higher than average wage.

[-] LanguageIsCool@lemmy.world 13 points 6 days ago

I’ve done this for the past several years. Not on purpose. I keep telling myself I’ll settle down.

I got a new job a year ago. It looked promising and I was ready to make a life here. But I don’t see myself in it. Leaving soon. Saved enough for modest living and adventurous cheapish traveling for at least a year.

Before that job I was mostly on the road for a year and a half, with some temporary odd jobs here and there.

It has its pros and cons. It’s exciting and adventurous. Sometimes it’s intense. I basically have no retirement savings. Super hard to find a partner.

[-] echodot@feddit.uk 7 points 6 days ago

You must have a pretty well-paying job because most jobs don't pay enough for you to really generate anything other than very mediocre savings.

If I were to try this I'd probably last about 4 months and then run out of money.

[-] LanguageIsCool@lemmy.world 6 points 6 days ago

Not really, actually. I live somewhat frugally. And when I say “travel” I usually mean very low cost traveling involving lots of camping.

[-] mrpres@sh.itjust.works 4 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Curious, do you plant your own fruits and vegetables? (looking to learn hydroponics)

[-] LanguageIsCool@lemmy.world 4 points 6 days ago

Nope. I wish. I try not to own a lot of stuff because I might move again eventually. Maybe there’s a good way to do it simply and temporarily. But I’ve scored living situations in places with gardens and fruit trees.

[-] Doxatek@mander.xyz 3 points 6 days ago

Ah definitely try. It's not very complex to do basic things as some may make it seem. Just get some plants a container and a water pump for circulation as well as a general liquid fertilizer

[-] GrayBackgroundMusic@lemm.ee 8 points 6 days ago

I wish. It takes me around 6 months and hundreds of applications to get a job. That strategy isn't sustainable for me.

[-] tankplanker@lemmy.world 4 points 5 days ago

This gets a lot easier if you have somewhere reliable and preferably free to stay when you need to start working again. Even if you have paid off your own place or been given a place for free you have bills to pay on it. I guess you can rent it out while you are away, but that seems less than ideal to me as how do you keep it maintained if you aren't in the country? It just ends up being another cost.

I would have loved to have done this but the housing situation has always put me off.

[-] pokkits@lemmy.wtf 3 points 5 days ago

This is literally the route I took in my life. Entered the workforce in the early 2000s in IT as helpdesk. Worked till I had a resume good enough for the next level up. Lived below my means. Take several months off to do whatever. Apply for a higher level position. Rinse and repeat every couple years until I was in my 40s at a company I intend to retire with.

I always lived in a smaller place than what I could afford. Never owned a new car. My current vehicle is a 2001 pickup truck, purchased in like 2018. So, gotta trade one luxury for another.

2 caveats: IT as a career was not in the state its in now. Much easier to move up and around. I'm also now in my late 40s and looking to buy my first home, since I wasn't building a nest egg my whole life, and that's no fun.

Also, it was really important to have some significant achievements on the resume as I left each place to show growth professionally so I could always jump up in role/salary with each move.

My career is solid and I make a great salary for my age, but homes are just insane. My brother is 6 years younger and took a more traditional route and started a family, he was able to score a good home before COVID.

Still, I wouldn't trade anything material for the life I took and the places I went.

[-] limelight79@lemm.ee 10 points 6 days ago

A woman I know did just that, except she wrote a book during her "off" years.

[-] CriticalMiss@lemmy.world 6 points 6 days ago

Didn’t know this phenomenon had a name. That’s what I’m doing right now however. I want to have enough money to be unemployed for a year or two.

[-] moopet@sh.itjust.works 3 points 5 days ago

This is what my old housemate did, starting in the 90s. Worked out quite well for him. My dad used went round the world with the navy in the 50s and used to talk about how some other cultures did stuff like this.

[-] bitwolf@sh.itjust.works 2 points 5 days ago

How does that work when you don't live with your parents?

Rents are extremely expensive and would slow down the "build a safety net" part of the cycle.

[-] Chadus_Maximus@lemm.ee 2 points 5 days ago

Live with roommates, stop living with roommates since you're now traveling, no rent payment.

As someone with kids, that's not happening. Then again, my sibling did this and went on a year-long trip with their kids, and it worked out for them.

[-] Taleya@aussie.zone 1 points 4 days ago

If you're gonna do this, go drive a truck in a mining area. (In Australia this basically means WA) They're often desperate for drivers and the pay is insane.

[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago

Honey, that was a lifestyle boomers actually lived once. Though it's more of a silent generation lifestyle

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