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There's a lot of people on here who are part of what I'd call losing causes, causes that run counter to the consumerist capitalist mono-culture, I.e. socialism, veganism, FOSS, anti-car urbanism, even lemmy and the fediverse.

I want to know what made you switch from being a sympathizer to an active participant. I believe it's important for us to understand what methods work in getting people involved in a movement that may not have any immediate wins to motivate people to join.

EDIT: A lot of people objecting to my use of losing so I'll explain more, all of these causes benefit from popularity and are weakened by there lack of adoption and are thus in direct competition with the capitalist consumerist mono-culture, a competition which they are currently losing.

  • Socialism on a small scale cannot solve the inherent issues of a capitalism that surrounds it.

  • Veganism benefits from more people becoming vegan and restaurants and grocery stores providing vegan options.

  • FOSS, or more specifically desktop Linux, benefits from more people being on it and software developers designing for and maintaining applications for it.

  • The more people that use transit, the more funding it gets and the better it gets.

  • the fediverse benefits from more people veing on it and more diverse communities so those with niche interests besides the above causes can find community here.

On the flip side the capitalist consumerist alternatives to all of these benefit from there popularity and thus offer a better value to most people. The question is about what made you defer that better immediate material value in favor of something else.

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[-] m532@lemmygrad.ml 1 points 42 minutes ago

Let's see... a few capitalists and their horde of miseducated lackeys vs 1400000000 socialists + lots of other people around the world. What's the losing cause here?

[-] josefo@leminal.space 2 points 2 hours ago

The world is fucked and nobody is going to win, all causes are losing causes. I might as well pick one that align with my principles so I die with some dignity

[-] Fleur_@aussie.zone 2 points 3 hours ago

I'm a loser

[-] traceur301@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 5 hours ago

I do what I want. Has someone really gone and fabricated a narrative where that is somehow losing? I cry for the "winners"

[-] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 2 points 5 hours ago

I'm stubborn as shit and kind of a masochist.

Also in video games I like the adrenaline rush that comes with being on the losing side. Usually you just lose but sometimes you manage to do some badass shit and come out on top and that gives you one of the highest highs there is.

[-] silentjohn@lemmy.ml 2 points 6 hours ago

I'm a hipster.

[-] ClassifiedPancake@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

If you manage to convert just one or two others to the cause, it’s a win already. If not, at least you are not part of the problem.

And for many of the things you listed I see a lot of progress compared to even 10 years in the past. Slow but steady.

[-] Four_mile_circus@lemmy.ml 6 points 13 hours ago

All the things you list are things people choose for other reasons than just "winning".

People choose to be socialists because it's morally right, not because it's popular.

People choose Linux and open source software because it benefits them, not because it's popular.

People choose veganism because it's morally right and it benefits them, not because it's popular.

When you say capitalist options offer "a better value" - that's where you're making a mistake. These alternatives do benefit people, individually, no matter how few other people join in. And that's why people join them.

So if you want to motivate people to join a movement, show how it'll benefit them to join - physically, emotionally, financially, or spiritually.

[-] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 3 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

Minor addendum, historically arguments for socialism, at least from the Marxist viewpoint, have avoided the moral argument in favor of the scientific argument. The moral argument can be framed as perspective, the scientific argument cannot, and is much more solid. That doesn't mean socialism isn't morally correct, it is, it's just also scientifically indisputably correct.

[-] KillerWhale@orcas.enjoying.yachts 2 points 7 hours ago

Id argue Linux is also the moral choice, or rather, the other two choices are immoral.

[-] Not_mikey@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

I understand people making choices despite popularity, it seems a lot of people here are of that category, I'm concerned with the people who are choosing not to join a cause because of its lack of popularity, leading to the issues mentioned above. I think this second group is a larger percentage of the population then the first group. I think we can agree that these causes gaining popularity is good, even though they can have value without popularity. So getting that second group into the cause would be good.

I think what your advocating is to just evangelize the benefits and then people will come. But I think there are a lot of people that even if I could explain every benefit of Linux, they'd still stay on windows citing one of the above benefits of popularity, same with a lot of the causes listed above. If we are to say evangelizing is the best/only method then we leave a lot of those people for which education is not enough.

I was looking for people who were at that point of being educated about a cause, but weighed it it less then those benefits of popularity and continued on in the capitalist consumerist system. Then maybe something else pushed those scales to the other side and they chose to join the cause. What was that experience? Was it having a child? Was it an experience with death, spiritual experience, revelation, drug trip, etc. I guess that's the question.

[-] Four_mile_circus@lemmy.ml 2 points 5 hours ago

I was looking for people who were at that point of being educated about a cause, but weighed it it less then those benefits of popularity and continued on in the capitalist consumerist system. Then maybe something else pushed those scales to the other side and they chose to join the cause. What was that experience? Was it having a child? Was it an experience with death, spiritual experience, revelation, drug trip, etc. I guess that's the question.

I think education about a cause is a continuum, not a binary. When I changed from popular lifeways to less popular ones, it wasn't because of a road to Damascus moment that made me suddenly change my mind. It was because, as I gradually learned more about a particular topic, I ultimately reached tipping point and decided the perceived benefits of switching to the less popular option outweighed the benefits of sticking with the popular option.

(And I'm using benefits in the broadest sense - being able to feel good about myself for doing the right thing is a benefit that outweighs mere physical or financial gain in a lot of cases.)

The other major factor in my switching, when I think back on it, was the capitalist alternative getting worse. I quit using Google's search engine, for example, both because I learned more about online privacy and because Google's searches were providing increasingly shitty results.

[-] kidney_stone@lemmy.world 2 points 7 hours ago

I kinda agree with you. Very often people with strong moral convictions (a good thing, in my opinion) believe that evangelizing alone is the only 'valid' approach, while popularity and convenience are seen as somehow 'dirty'. But it is impossible to ignore the reality of how much people in their everyday lives want and need convenience. And when it comes to social media, popularity is inherently important, because people want to hang out where their real life friends hang out too. So convenience and popularity are a material necessity if a cause is not to be a losing cause.

[-] geneva_convenience@lemmy.ml 11 points 17 hours ago
[-] Not_mikey@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

I wouldn't say Palestine is a losing cause. All the ones I listed are minoritarian, some in the low single digit percentage of people, especially in the US. A majority of people in the US and a large majority of the world want a ceasefire. It's not failing due to lack of popular support, its failimg because a small minority of very powerful people really want this genocide.

[-] BrainInABox@lemmy.ml 3 points 7 hours ago

A majority of people in the US and a large majority of the world want a ceasefire.

That is only a very recent development though. And "a ceasefire" is very different to an actual free Palestine anyway

[-] umbrella@lemmy.ml 4 points 17 hours ago

thanks, johnny silverhand.

[-] stinerman@midwest.social 5 points 18 hours ago

Sir or Madam, I'm a fan of the Cleveland Guardians and the Columbus Blue Jackets. Both of those are losing causes and will probably be forever.

[-] uhdeuidheuidhed@thelemmy.club 7 points 20 hours ago

I wouldn't really consider any of those 'losing causes.'

None of us have a crystal ball and know what the future will bring.

[-] Jentu@lemmy.ml 8 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago)

Hope that the work we do will over time become the shade of a tree our grandkids will be able to enjoy.

[-] trk@aussie.zone 21 points 1 day ago

Because I'd rather be right than win. Nice to be both, but the former is a higher priority for me.

[-] glowing_hans@sopuli.xyz 1 points 15 hours ago

This answer goes hard. I guess stubbornness is needed in some cases.

[-] Wahots@pawb.social 4 points 22 hours ago

Because it's saving me craploads of money to bike instead of drive. Our city put in protected bike lanes. It's faster and cheaper than driving in traffic in a state with $5.60 gas.

[-] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 19 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I still object to your definition of losing. Ethics diets are on the rise, and if Linux became less popular at any point that's new information to me. I'd say we're underdogs but things are going well.

As for actually answering, I think I just have a weird attachment to abstract conceptual correctness. Or rather, other people don't seem to, and that's why they can ignore things like animal welfare and creepy digital mega-corporations even if they know, on some level, that it's inconsistent with their stated priorities and values.

[-] Lazylazycat@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

I assume this I just bait but regardless, describing any of these values as "losing" suggests that for anything to be worth pursuing in life, you must be winning at it. I don't even know what that means. Don't you make choices and spend time doing things because they make you happy or they benefit you or the people around you?

[-] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 55 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I disagree with the notion that these are "losing causes."

  1. Socialism is necessary. Not only is the largest economy in the world by PPP a socialist country, and is using it to dramatic effect, capitalism and by extension imperialism are dying systems that have no future. Despite governing more of the world, capitalism is in decay, and is thus the "losing side."

  2. Veganism is ethically correct. Not only is animal liberation a valuable pursuit, but it has far lower of an environmental impact. It isn't a "side," it's the correct conclusion.

  3. FOSS isn't losing, it doesn't need mass adoption because it doesn't need profit. FOSS is growing though.

  4. Anti-car urbanism is improving, socialist countries like the PRC are building huge amounts of effective urban transit. Between the car centric society of today and the urbanist future we desire, there is a transitional period marked by electrification and building up urban transit.

  5. Lemmy/fediverse is healthy and stable, and already does what it needs to: provide an alternative for those who want one.

At the end of the day, framing movements as "winning" or "losing" purely on adoption rates is an error. What is important is trajectory and the material basis for transitioning from the present state of things to the next, ie how do the problems of today make the solutions of tomorrow physically compelled? For socialism, it is the decay of capitalism due to its inevitable contradictions, as well as capitalism's centralization making public ownership and planning in a post-capitalist society remarkably effective. How does that apply to others?

[-] Jinna@lemmy.blahaj.zone 58 points 2 days ago

I feel like you're missing the point a bit. Living by values you hold dear is not losing, winning or even necessarily a cause. If your values happen to align with a cause, then supporting it in a way you can is at least somewhat fulfilling.

Now, there are definitely people who join a cause for tangential reasons. For example because they are a vehicle to what they want, such as someone who wants to build and use explosives can just as easily become a fundamentalist, anarchist or fascist. (And history has examples of these sordid folks.) They barely care about any of the causes and will drift wherever they can live by their own values, even if it's about blowing shit up.

[-] jet@hackertalks.com 4 points 1 day ago

I've always been on the fringes, as a child even, hard science fiction with nobody to discuss with. Making your own decisions based on the best data, changing my mind on data, but not consensus, this were the early memories in my life. The great hard core scifi authors echo this message over and over, really hammer it in.

While these may not be losing causes, they are not mainstream... and in relaxed wisdom of years I realize not being mainstream doesn't mean wrong, but nobody is incentivized to push them. All we know of human history is what survived in writings scattered around, lucky enough to survive the ravages of time... being the crazy guy who writes everything down, makes copies of all their books, has two libraries in different locations... wasn't a popular choice I'm sure, but it was the choice that survived.

Open Source - This is intensely popular, not by sales, but by what survives and gets used for decades. The perfect algorithm locked in a dusty cabinet doesn't advance humanity long term, imperfect open source that echos forward because its open and free does... This is why i think the permissive licenses are for software that will have the biggest impact.

Ketogenic - Very unpopular, fringe and rejected by traditional consensus, but the benefits are actually there.

Lemmy - It's not a losing cause, its just got low marketing... its the only way for open communication to last into the future. If it ain't federated it might as well be written in the sand.

[-] communism@lemmy.ml 18 points 1 day ago

I don't agree with causes to win. I agree with causes because they're correct. If everyone stopped believing in gravity I wouldn't follow suit.

[-] Truffle@lemmy.ml 17 points 1 day ago

There are not lost causes, just struggles you don't face.

[-] RedGreenBlue@lemmy.zip 22 points 1 day ago

Many of the things you mentioned are not "loosing". They are chugging along. Slow and steady.

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[-] HiddenLayer555@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I think you're treating all these mostly unrelated initiatives as an "ideology" in itself and not just things people are interested in.

On the flip side the capitalist consumerist alternatives to all of these benefit from there popularity and thus offer a better value to most people. The question is about what made you defer that better immediate material value in favor of something else.

What makes you think a given person prefers the capitalist options? There are plenty of reasons to like all of these things which is why some people do.

Socialism on a small scale cannot solve the inherent issues of a capitalism that surrounds it.

No, but socialist countries are routinely sheltered from the capitalist driven cataclysms due to their control of the economy. Look at how much China was affected by the 2008 crisis vs Western countries.

Also, socialism in places like Canada necessarily means decolonization of both the Indigenous peoples here and ending our corporate exploitation of both people abroad and Canadians. If that's not a reason to support it I don't know what is.

Veganism benefits from more people becoming vegan and restaurants and grocery stores providing vegan options.

The WHOLE DAMN POINT of veganism is to get rid of a luxury (animal products) because you think it's unethical. Vegans are not bothered by restaurants not catering to them because they simply won't go.

Also, grocery stores providing grocery options? Ah yes the flop of the vegan tomato left the vegan community reeling. What are you buying at the grocery store of all places that you don't think it's always been possible to be vegan? You know you can just buy plants and make your own food right?

FOSS, or more specifically desktop Linux, benefits from more people being on it and software developers designing for and maintaining applications for it.

Linux is measurably more efficient. Like seriously compare the background resource usage of Linux to Windows, Linux can be up to twice as light giving you more resources for your actual applications. Linux is also a lot more private which a lot of people care about over the convenience of a mainstream big tech OS.

Also, the simplicity and dare I say "non-technical user unfriendliness" of Linux is also a draw for technical users who don't want their computer coddling them. It's a niche for a reason.

the fediverse benefits from more people veing on it and more diverse communities so those with niche interests besides the above causes can find community here.

Can you elaborate on this one? I don't know what it means.

[-] Not_mikey@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 21 hours ago

What makes you think a given person prefers the capitalist options?

The fact that they vast majority of people choose the capitalist option. You could chalk some of it up to lack of awareness, but even those that are aware still tend to go for the default capitalist option. Out of every normal person you've explained Linux to in real life, how many do you think made the switch? Yes individuals may choose them but the vast majority of normal people aren't.

vegans are not bothered by restaurants not catering to them because they simply won't go

Speak for yourself, I'm a vegetarian and often get annoyed by the lack of options, and that's in a very liberal city. Not everyone has your same moral conviction, my girlfriend is a vegetarian too but will eat meat if it's the only option on the menu. You can say she's a fake vegetarian or doesn't truly believe in the welfare of animals, but she still cares a hell of a lot more than your average person, so if she's is still occasionally eating meat then your never going to get rid of animal products for the average person who doesn't give two shits about animal welfare.

The fact is the more good vegan options there are the more people will be vegan, or at least partially vegan. Most people value taste and there food preferences more then animal welfare, environment etc. But if there's an item on the menu that is tasty and they prefer and its vegan then they'll choose it, and that's a win. But most chefs aren't putting there time into making a variety of tasty vegan food because the markets not there. Yes there are people with a higher moral conviction that value welfare over taste but that is a slim minority who won't be able to stop all the abuse the industry causes.

Also you don't always select where you go to dinner, a lot of times the friends or family your going to dinner with will select it. Some are kind and will check the menu for options but a lot of the time they can forget and just pick one. Am I supposed to not go to dinner after my cousins graduation because it's at a steakhouse?

Can you elaborate on this one?

A platform like this benefits from having more and more diverse communities to keep people engaged. Lemmy, as it stands right now, only has a couple broad communities, mostly about these causes I mentioned: FOSS, socialism, etc. If your not interested in those communities at all you probably won't find lemmy very valuable. Even if you are somewhat interested in those things you may still stay on reddit because it has the other communities your interested in along with those that are on lemmy. This is especially true for niche interests but even some broader interests like sports in general are completely absent from lemmy. This is self fulfilling to a certain extent, as less people talk about sports, less people post about sports, less people come here for sports etc. So for a person who wants a feed of say 50% socialist memes and 50% baseball they're gonna go to reddit because they can get that, even if the socialist memes and discussion is better over here, now we're missing out on that person's discussion in the socialist meme communities and that's a loss for everyone in that community.

[-] Vanth@reddthat.com 8 points 1 day ago

Pay attention to an individual's definition of "win" condition.

I define a "win" for FOSS on a very small, individual scale. I do not define it as widescale adoption by others. If I successfully replace a proprietary service with a FOSS service for my personal usage, that's a win. The only "lost cause" re FOSS to me is a FOSS service shutting or being so complicated to implement and maintain that I have to revert to the google service or whatever.

Similar on veganism, a win is me personally making a step improvement on diet, not contingent on shuttering commercial meat production.

[-] Pudutr0n@feddit.cl 28 points 2 days ago

My dear friend, my entire life is a losing cause. :)

[-] Diva@lemmy.ml 26 points 1 day ago

I've been vegan foss-using anti war anarchist since high school, once I figure out what's right social pressure doesn't particularly sway me. In addition to all of the above I'm trans and still mask too.

I can't really point to anything in particular that "switched" other than legitimately not caring about fitting in.

[-] ragebutt@lemmy.dbzer0.com 18 points 1 day ago

Morality and ethical behavior are not defined by popularity

[-] MeowZedong@lemmygrad.ml 20 points 2 days ago

I want to live in a better world. You can't change the world (win) by giving up. You can't change the status quo easily and I can't live with myself if I do nothing.

I don't think of them as "losing causes". While it's important to be realistic about the current state of your cause, framing it this way assumes they have already and permanently lost, so nothing can ever change. Assuming a mindset of defeatism is demoralizing even if it is only in the language you use.

[-] MrVilliam@sh.itjust.works 17 points 1 day ago

I know you phrased it as "losing" here, but it still made me think of that moment in Firefly when somebody refers to Mal having fought on the wrong side in a battle, and he says "May have been the losing side. Still not convinced it was the wrong one."

When a person has convictions and is put at a certain sort of fork in the road, they would rather do anything else before ever seeing themselves transform into the sort of person who would take one of those paths. Some would sell their souls to survive, and some know that their cause is worth several times more than their souls are worth, and the bill comes due at some point.

A society grows great when old men plant trees whose shade they know they shall never sit in.

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[-] djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 1 day ago

because the alternatives are unconscionable. Consumerist capitalist mono-culture is going to eat its own tail and kill everyone in the process.

I do think theory is a very good way to recruit people. When the facts are presented fairly, rational people will not choose capitalism.

[-] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 11 points 1 day ago

In my experience, rationality plays very little in deciding between socialism and capitalism, no matter how fairly the facts are presented. Ultimately, people license themselves to follow narratives their material conditions shape them to, those who believe capitalism is superior do so because they believe they benefit from it. I recommend reasing Masses, Elites, and Rebels: The Theory of "Brainwashing."

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