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[-] ShinkanTrain@lemmy.ml 7 points 5 months ago

How about just cuddling and talking about our favorite distros.

Arch btw

[-] somerandomperson@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 5 months ago

i use arch btw

(Fact: i used to think arch users have ascended to the linux heaven:tm:. But after installing (WITHOUT archinstall) and using arch and saying it... what now? NixOS aint cutting it and immutable distros are...well...too immutable.)

[-] Sxan@piefed.zip 0 points 5 months ago

How about taking about distros wiþout þe cuddling

Artix btw

[-] Rooty@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago
[-] DharmaCurious@startrek.website 1 points 5 months ago

There is a movement to bring back the thorn. It's actually pretty popular among English reformists. Personally, I'm in favor, but I generally don't use it outside of certain communities, or when joking or making a point. Using it 'in the wild' is normally an attempt at normalizing it's use. Personally, I'm on board, just not brave enough to be the odd one out. Especially since I'm also in favor of eth, eng, and interrobang (which I do use in the wild.). It'd make my writing too difficult for others to read it I included all of those in a normal post.

[-] irelephant@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago

He seems insufferable tbh

[-] SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 5 months ago

Jokes on him! >50% of guys on there do not bother to read the profile. Instead, their first message is of their junk…followed by three more pics of aforementioned junk and an aggressive opening message. It’s a great time!

[-] DharmaCurious@startrek.website 1 points 5 months ago

Don't forget the very well light, 4k quality picture of their anus that they do not properly clean

[-] Kolanaki@pawb.social 2 points 5 months ago

Does not have sex; only touches tips and jacks off.

They didnt even have to say they used Linux for everyone to know they used Linux. 😌

[-] daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 5 months ago

Not all grindr users are linux users. But are all linux users grindr users?

[-] abbadon420@sh.itjust.works 1 points 5 months ago

What do these words mean?

  • twink
  • twunk
  • otter
  • side
  • J/O
  • frot
[-] varden@lemmy.world 7 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)
  • Twink - a thin, mostly bodyhairless gay man
  • Twunk - a muscly, mostly bodyhairless gay man
  • Bear - a hairy, thicker gay man
  • Otter - a thinner but still hairy gay man
  • J/O - jerk off
  • Frot - touching two penises together, usually while j/o with each other
  • Top - the person who is topping is the person penetrating
  • Bottom - same but is instead the person being penetrated
  • Verse - likes being both top and bottom
  • Side - I'm less familiar with this one but given the quotes and context I'm assuming this is not a top or a bottom or a verse, but instead is someone less interested in penetration and more interested in body contact and j/o together. *
[-] Beacon@fedia.io 3 points 5 months ago

So he wants a man who's either thin, muscular, or neither, and who's also hairy, hairless, or neither. Sooooo, that's every man

[-] communism@lemmy.ml 3 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

He doesn't mention bears. He says he's looking for a twink or twunk and is an otter himself. So sounds like he wants a hairless guy who's either thin or muscly.

[-] ShinkanTrain@lemmy.ml 1 points 5 months ago

I think the first 2 or 4 have heavy gay culture connotations, but can be adapted to mean any man.

[-] funkless_eck@sh.itjust.works 1 points 5 months ago

Side just means no penetration. Usually it means ok with oral, manual and frotting. You can indicate both (vers, side ok) to indicate you don't mind someone who isn't into penetration.

[-] BagOfHeavyStones@piefed.social 7 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Twink. A kind of biscuit.

Twunk. It was a biscuit but now it's gone.

Otter. Thing that stole the biscuit.

Side. The biscuit was a side dish.

J/O. Just Otters.

Frot. Forgot.

[-] HappyFrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 5 months ago

Are there women on grinder or are there only men?

[-] basiclemmon98@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

I think there are a few lesbian alternatives, but you just never hear about them because the public views lesbian hookups as less blasphemous than gay male hookups. Because creepy straight men see lesbian hookups as sexy.

[-] Sxan@piefed.zip 0 points 5 months ago

Wait... finding lesbian hookups sexy makes a CIS man creepy?

Can you explain þe logic there? Does it also apply to all þe CIS women who find Yaoi hot?

[-] basiclemmon98@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Yes, it would apply equally, but I guess that I should rephrase: It is not that they find it hot that is the creepy part, it's the fact that it is inherently fetishization of a sexuality that is not meant to involve them. Essentially, it feels kind of disrespectful and creepy for a guy to get off thinking about women who have decided to have sex with other women (I don't mean decided to be lesbian, bc obvs that isn't a choice), because he was never even in the demographic they wanted to have sex with, and by getting off to that, you are (at least a little) probobly imagining yourself having sex with them, and they would not even want that with you (at least in this instance). This same principle does apply to women getting off to gay men, it is just as disrespectful and fetishizing. Now, whether you agree with the thought process or not is completely up to you, but I personally find men fetishizing my sex that intentionally does not include them to be unwelcomed and creepy.

[-] Dreaming_Novaling@lemmy.zip 2 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

I think the thing to focus on is bothering real people. If a guy jacks it to Yuri, who gives a shit, they're pictures. Same thing for girls and yaoi. Although I dislike it a bit, guys jacking to irl lesbians (like porn) doesn't hurt anybody either, and vice versa. It's when we get into that "harassment of real people" territory where you should be shamed. If you're a guy being creepy to lesbians/queer people online/irl, you are a disgusting human being who is making others uncomfortable. Same for women who do the same to gay/queer people.

Basically, ethically gooning and having "toxic fetishes" is possible. As long as a foot fetishist doesn't get hot and bothered around people at a waterpark, nor begs for feet pics from randos in their DMs, who the fuck am I to judge? It's once you can't control your fetish around unwilling participants that you get the horny bonk.

[-] basiclemmon98@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 5 months ago

You phrased it way better than I did and I have no disagreements. Cheers!

[-] vivalapivo@lemmy.today 0 points 5 months ago
[-] Crazyslinkz@lemmy.world 1 points 5 months ago

Year born, maybe 🤔

[-] Aggravationstation@feddit.uk 0 points 5 months ago
[-] trublu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 5 months ago

Muscular twink

[-] Venus_Ziegenfalle@feddit.org 1 points 5 months ago

Twink x hunk

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