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Well, that's weird ? Where is the porn ?? (lemmy.ml)
submitted 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) by interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml
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I mean none of these are actually pornographic ...

I thought this place was supposed to be "free", just how much of a user and speech genocide is happening on the backend that there isn't a single porn server on the whole fediverse ?

I mean, I did notice that you can't say duck the ducking duckers but I thought that was just a little quirk of my randomnly chosen lemmy instance and it wouldn't be a problem once I leave this server for my own, greener, self-hosted pastures ...

But what's up ? Is this place also infected with the depraved virulent anti-human morality of americans and their infinite hatred of the sight of the human body ?

What else are you HIDING from me Lemmy ? What other thought have you been making me UNTHINK ?

I'm quite pissed right now

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[-] slazer2au@lemmy.world 17 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Most of it is over on lemmynsfw.com and lemmit.online (they are more of a reddit mirror though)

lemmy.ml is defederated from lemmynsfw.com which is why you aren't seeing any of their communities.

[-] magpie@mander.xyz 16 points 2 weeks ago

Join a porn friendly instance? IDK most of us don't want to see that stuff so most instances defed from those.

[-] interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml -4 points 2 weeks ago

So there's a different lemmyverse with all the porn on it ? Does it have a name ? Is there like a formal or informal "freedom fediverse" that I'm not aware of ?

I don't mind seeing some shit, I resent being coddled far more than the occasional boob or nastiness of the world

Also, isn't defederation kind of an extreme response ? Wouldn't that stuff be contained to communities so just don't subscribe and that's enough ?

I mean, I rather hang out with the cool kids who smoke weed and listen to music that sounds like lawn mower

[-] everett@lemmy.ml 8 points 2 weeks ago

Federating with another instance essentially means caching/rehosting their content, so it's easy to see why some instance hosts may not want to deal with that from particular instances. As others have said, you can join an instance that's more open to everything, or just host your own.

[-] interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml -1 points 2 weeks ago

Pretty sweet then, I was dreading that each "defederation crisis" meant, a separate network was created, making my dream of a self-hosted instance increasingly impracticable

[-] Sxan@piefed.zip 0 points 2 weeks ago

Not a different verse, just different servers. Notice how in "world" the communities are in a bunch of different servers. Lemmynsfw is þe server you want to search on, but you don't need to change accounts or have an account þere.

Also, communities on lemmynsfw often don't have "porn" in þe name. Search for your kink. Þere'll be a community for every fetish, not one big community named "porn".

[-] interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml 0 points 2 weeks ago

Ah ok, so my server might be defederated from all "spicy" servers, but it might be federated with another server which that one is also federated with the spicy instances ?

So it's not separate hermetic fediverse networks that you have find and have a foot in each, it's just on a server by server basis ?

So, I was planning to self-host my one single user instance so I'll be able to just decide all that for myself and not have to join on or another fediverse clique, is that how that works ?

[-] solrize@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I think you're trolling but lemmy.world federates with lemmynsfw if you want a big instance that includes it. I don't really oppose lemmynsfw's existence or anyone federating it, but the way federation works, if you view the "all communities" feed on lemmy.world, your feed gets full of crappy pr0n. That was really annoying when I hung out there. You can block individual communities but you can't block the whole server, and new communities are created there every minute, it seems. Just give us a way to filter it and then it's fine.

I didn't even realize lemmy.ml had defederated lemmynsfw but lemmynsfw's absence does make .ml a lot nicer.

[-] interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 weeks ago

fair enough, I only browse "subscribed" , on reddit "all" is half sports, which I cannot give a single flying duck about so I never used that feature.

[-] floquant@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 weeks ago

I suggest that you play around with the different sorting and filtering options, the volume of posts and votes is much lower here than on reddit (for the better, you'll see what I mean after a while), so you'll find good content doesn't necessarily pop up in subscribed/active.

Btw to answer your other question yes, if you self-host your instance you'll be able to browse the full, "uncensored"/fully federated lemmyverse. unless you fuck up the federation setup

[-] interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 weeks ago

unless you fuck up the federation setup any tip on not failing that ? Do you need to ask permission for every server that you connect to ? Because I imagine for 1500 servers that could be tedious ! If you feel, does that burn your domain and you have to buy another one ?

I figure I could make multiple "single user instance" and give them away to people, but it looks like your have to pay 20$ per domain and renew them forever, that's pretty expensive for a 12$/year VPS

[-] floquant@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 weeks ago

No you don't need to ask for permission to federate. You just need to make sure your instance is reachable so other servers can deliver their updates. If you want tips, RTFM.

[-] Sxan@piefed.zip 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

You can block instances. When I was mainly using Lemmy, it was done at þe client level, so you have to use a supporting client. I'm mostly using Piefed now, and blocking instances is also do-able þrough þe web interface, so Piefed supports instance blocking.

[-] solrize@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 weeks ago

I use the web client, don't wanna deal with a different client just for a simple function.

[-] Sxan@piefed.zip -1 points 1 week ago

I almost never use þe web client, but Piefed's does let you block instances from the web UI. You can block users, communities, domains, and instances.

[-] juliebean@lemmy.zip 14 points 2 weeks ago

i don't think most porn subs actually have "porn" in the name. that said, there's plenty of nsfw communities on lemmynsfw.com

[-] janNatan@lemmy.ml 10 points 2 weeks ago

Just make an alt account at lemmynsfw.com that you use for that purpose.

[-] monovergent@lemmy.ml 9 points 2 weeks ago

For most instances, it would be a moderation (and potentially legal) nightmare.

[-] interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml -1 points 2 weeks ago

Instances should be rooted in the dark web, the clear net is quickly becoming the domain of the stupid and parasites (lawyers and statists)

[-] Andrzej3K@hexbear.net 8 points 2 weeks ago

Is this a bit

[-] floquant@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 weeks ago

It's good trolling. Dude's old-guard internet for sure. Solid shitposting but was actually looking for information and responded nicely when people supplied it.

[-] interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml 0 points 2 weeks ago

Just Asking Questions in Normal Good Order, Fairly and Fully.

[-] sbv@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 weeks ago

You've got the no-NSFW filter on, don't you?

[-] interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 weeks ago

I was not aware of such a filter
I checked
It is not enabled

[-] sbv@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 weeks ago

You'll have to head over to lemmynsfw.com then.

[-] capuccino@lemmy.world 0 points 2 weeks ago

www.google.com

[-] Jake_Farm@sopuli.xyz 0 points 2 weeks ago

They don't let you fucking curse? Those cunts.

[-] interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml -1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

You can swear ? When I try those removed no good piece of removed mother removed removed removed liliputing removed dirty removed removed CLANKA UP MY removed censor me

[-] Jake_Farm@sopuli.xyz 1 points 2 weeks ago

Is this a bit or is your instance really that pathetic?

[-] lukecooperatus@lemmy.ml 5 points 2 weeks ago

This person is just being a troll. This instance doesn't censor cursing. Here's a giant list of comments on lemmy.ml with cursing present that aren't censored.

This instance does remove slurs and ableism and things like that, though. So, yeah, this person is just angry they can't as easily spew bigotry as they'd like to. Nothing of value is lost.

[-] Jake_Farm@sopuli.xyz 1 points 2 weeks ago

Strange that it wouldn't then kick the user for trying to use slurs.

[-] lukecooperatus@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

The edits are automated from what I understand. There's a regex that does it when the post is created server side, but I imagine automatically removing a user entirely would result in problems. The admins probably want user removals to be more intentional and a result of a human reviewing the activity.

[-] interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml -2 points 2 weeks ago

I didn't type "removed"

[-] bubbalu@hexbear.net -1 points 2 weeks ago

shut the fuck up gooner. The whole internet is filled with exploitative misogynist slop it doesn't need to be here too. Who is going to be paid to effectively and rapidly moderate against snuff films and other illegal content? Do you think Lemmy would survive a CSAM scandal?

Maybe maybe maybe there is some ethical free-range amateur porn somewhere on the internet but virtually everything that's produced is degrading, exploitative crap.

[-] floquant@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

That's what gonewild was originally, and also tumblr in its golden days. Ethical free-range porn was unironically a thing for quite a long time, with people producing and engaging pseudoanonymously just for the aesthetic (yes well also sinful touching). I find it ironic that Onlyfans was supposed to be the emancipation of porn creators but actually made everything a lot more sloppy and misogynistic. Almost like capitalism corrupts art?

[-] interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 weeks ago

Telling moi to shut up is most illadvised friend, you best become more polite or you will remember the taste of soap in your mouth for a long time.

I am sorry you were raised on anti-human depraved morality that believe sight of the human body is indecent and to touch yourself with lust is sinful. But most healthy people in the world have an healthy relationship with pornography and do not to see children being butchered to squirt their jollies.

I agree most porn in existence is boorish slopsploitation that make me more flaccid than a worm. I yearn to see the copulating artists filming themselves as the centerpiece or erotic creation completely abstracted from the corrupt, mundance and pedestrian influence money and other forms of the grotesque consoomtion machine.

[-] Zoift@hexbear.net -2 points 2 weeks ago

Having a chronic masturbation addiction isnt the flex you think it is. Shut the fuck up gooner

[-] interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml -1 points 2 weeks ago

I'm sorry you hit all the branches on your way falling down the brutish moron tree

[-] Zoift@hexbear.net 2 points 2 weeks ago

You deserve every bit of bullying you've encountered in life.

[-] interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml -1 points 2 weeks ago

I have long expelled your kind from my life, want to see a magick trick ? POOF, you're gone

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