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[-] es_eskaliert@feddit.org 56 points 6 days ago
[-] FreddiesLantern@leminal.space 40 points 6 days ago

Make sure to delete the account first.

[-] myfunnyaccountname@lemmy.zip 17 points 6 days ago

Account deletion will not delete your messages, which you must do manually or by following this tutorial to ask messages deletion: https://khcrysalis.dev/mass-deletion/ (Take 24 hours or more to fully remove messages). NOTE: Only not-accessible messages will be removed, meaning you need to leave every servers you’re on and close all of your DMs before submitting your demand. If you’re a server owner, you’ll need to either delete the server, or transfer ownership for account deletion to succeed. Account deletion takes 15 days on average (You can restore your account in this time).

[-] MonkderVierte@lemmy.zip 2 points 5 days ago

There's no reddit auto-delete/overwrite thing for discord?

[-] umbrella@lemmy.ml 3 points 5 days ago

there's undiscord.

[-] redparadise@lemmygrad.ml 1 points 5 days ago

Huh thanks for the advice, I wonder whether they'll actually let non-EU citizens quote GDPR for message deletion, surely they know what country I am from, I personally just wrote a discord bot to delete my messages in the servers I'm most active in since conincidently that's also where I'm admin.

The non-accessible requirement is confusing since pretty sure requesting your message data only gives you the messages from the servers you still have access to?

[-] ohellidk@sh.itjust.works 14 points 6 days ago

about to do the same when it hits me with that. it kind of sucks because there's some communities that I'll lose contact with, including my IPTV service.

[-] FreddiesLantern@leminal.space 11 points 6 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Why wait? Start actively working out solutions alternatives. You can’t take care of everything at once but you gotta play offense.

[-] sakuraba@lemmy.ml 7 points 6 days ago

there is no solution if those communities don't take an issue with discord's terms, just removing yourself from them

[-] ttyybb@lemmy.world 11 points 6 days ago

Missing pt 2 install element.

[-] MolochHorridus@lemmy.ml 12 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Did that just earlier today. No issues so far.

[-] tyrant@lemmy.world 8 points 6 days ago

Is there a new "default"platform everyone is moving to? I'm kind of surprised there isn't an open source discord clone that comes with e2e encryption. I'm not tech savvy enough to understand the challenges involved I'm sure.

[-] ttyybb@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago

I've seen Stoat thrown around, I think the best swap right now is to matrix though.

[-] tyrant@lemmy.world 6 points 6 days ago

Yeah I've tried both. Stoat looks good and seems like the best option for similar organization but matrix seems better in terms of privacy. If matrix wasn't so clumsy it would be hands down the best option.

[-] Lucidlethargy@sh.itjust.works 3 points 5 days ago

It is so fucking clumsy. I hate it.

[-] ttyybb@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago

A friend recently sent me this there seem to be plenty to try out

[-] Lucidlethargy@sh.itjust.works 3 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

This is false. For Stoat voice is not available to self hosted still, and the primary channel is not available.

[-] craigers@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

I've tried most of these. A lot seem more geared towards slack alternatives or more like work chat type things. Voice chat is critical and some lack it or have it tacked on. Teamspeak is the opposite which text chat is tacked on. The closest alts right now are stoat, fluxer and root. Fluxer and stoat and open source, root is VC funded. I'm pushing for fluxer personally. But he is getting hug of death at the moment.

[-] GreyCat@piefed.social 1 points 5 days ago

Fluxer seems pretty good.

[-] Lucidlethargy@sh.itjust.works 2 points 5 days ago

No. Matrix is totally not the same vibe.

Stoat is great, but they need to release voice to self hosted still.

[-] ttyybb@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago

I've been using Element for a bit and IMHO it's a pretty similar vibe

[-] craigers@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

My money's on fluxer. I got a good vibe with him.

[-] Justifier@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago

Ehhh

River on FreeNet has more potential to be what people actually need if people actually develop for it

Don't get me wrong I've set up shop on all of the alternatives I have found so far but they're frankly all.... Meh. That includes Fluxer

Something about Fluxer's communications so far gives me hibijibis though I'm unable to put my finger on why exactly. I'm getting Guilded.gg vibes for whatever reason

[-] Doomsider@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago

This is perfect to show people how to deal with even minor enshitification.

[-] clot27@lemmy.zip 1 points 5 days ago
[-] technocrit@lemmy.dbzer0.com -4 points 5 days ago

How long til the libs force this on Lemmy?

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