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For me it was Cheater Bennington. Linkin Park music helped me through some hard times and I know some of the more impactful lyrics came from him and what he experienced.

Knowing he couldn’t take it anymore definitely hit Me hard particularly as someone I looked up to from young age …

Who was yours ?

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[-] Augustiner@lemmy.world 2 points 58 minutes ago

Mac Miller was probably the worst one… I’m a little younger than him and watching his career from early on felt like watching an older brother develop and making it big. He made the soundtrack to most of my youth.

[-] UpperBroccoli@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 42 minutes ago

Freddy Mercury, for sure.

[-] spy@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 hour ago

Not a celebrity, kind of like @pedz@lemmy.ca, but Daniel Naroditsky.

I did not expect his death would affect me as much as it did. Fuck K.

[-] Augustiner@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

Definitely a tragic one. RIP Danya

[-] iguessimlemming@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 hour ago

David Bowie. I really mourned him, didn't expect to feel so strongly about someone I never met. Feel like the world got significantly duller and darker since he took off.

[-] ClockworkOtter@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

Initially I was upset when I heard about John Peel passing away because I listened to him so much - possibly more his Home Truths show on Radio 4 than the Peel Sessions for which he was better known. Listening to him talk to regular people about their lives was a regular feature of my Saturday mornings.

Later I learned about his sexual abuse of teenagers and now don't care about him at all.

[-] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 4 points 3 hours ago

Hearing about Rush Limbaugh's death made me smile pretty big.

[-] UpperBroccoli@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 43 minutes ago

Freddy Mercury for sure.

[-] UpperBroccoli@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 43 minutes ago

Freddy Mercury for sure.

[-] CelloMike@lemmy.world 4 points 3 hours ago

Sean Lock

The first time I've felt genuine shock at a celebrity death, RIP undisputed Carrot in a Box champion

[-] doleo@lemmy.one 1 points 2 hours ago

Steve albini. I'm still not over it tbh.

[-] Mothra@mander.xyz 20 points 6 hours ago

Terry Pratchett

[-] Town@lemmy.zip 62 points 7 hours ago
[-] osanna@lemmy.vg 3 points 4 hours ago

Same. He was such a down to earth person. He was incredibly famous, but he didn’t think he was above anyone. He was a truly good person. RIP Robin

[-] Today@lemmy.world 2 points 4 hours ago

My adult kids got together with their friends to watch Aladdin that night.

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[-] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 hours ago

Damn. Hard call. There's only been a few that have hit me because I don't really have a parasocial connection to anyone to any degree worth mentioning.

That being said, the three that made me actually cry were Vonnegut, Kris Kristofferson, and Chester Bennington.

Chester, I was listening to the one more light album when I found out, so it hit extra hard.

Vonnegut though, he more than any other writer made me think and want to create with words. He shaped how I view literature and think about writing. So his death hit harder than most.

Kristofferson, it's that I had known it was coming. He'd already been lost to a great degree, but I had been low key dreading the news because he's so damn iconic. He's the kind of poet I wish I could be. And his music was also damn good lol. Also, he's symbolic of an era of music that's disappeared, and as the last of the highwaymen have died, with only one left there's this hole in the world that isn't likely to be filled now that the entire music industry has fallen into disarray. It's much harder for that kind of poet bard to exist and have their music spread now. In any genre, btw; the same difficulties exist in folk, metal, rap, etc.

Anyway, those are the ones that made me cry as a grown-ass man. I suspect I'll shed another tear when Willie goes, and I know I'm gonna fall apart a little when Dolly does. Luckily, the next wave of writers and musicians that I'd likely cry over are a good twenty years younger (or more) than them, so I'll have a break after that. Likely be dead myself before most of the others would go.

[-] Mister_Hangman@lemmy.world 2 points 3 hours ago

My Vonnegut tattoo was my first.

[-] Kevo@lemmy.world 22 points 6 hours ago

Chadwick Boseman. I was 24 when he died. I'm mixed and a huge nerd. He was one of the first times I saw representation like that in a comic book hero in a movie or TV show. T'Challa was a king, and his death came out of nowhere

[-] normalentrance@lemmy.zip 6 points 5 hours ago

Chris Cornell hit hard especially when you go back and listen to his lyrics.

[-] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 1 points 3 hours ago

Watching one of his later interviews was rough. Heroin is one hell of a monster.

[-] davidgro@lemmy.world 14 points 6 hours ago

Taking the question literally, I'll say Ruth Bader Ginsburg.

[-] cerement@slrpnk.net 18 points 6 hours ago
[-] RecursiveParadox@piefed.social 1 points 1 hour ago

He was so deeply human and drew out the things from others that made them most human. This despite his epic battles with himself.

[-] linkshandig@lemmy.today 26 points 7 hours ago
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[-] pedz@lemmy.ca 22 points 7 hours ago

I don't know if he counts as a celebrity but, Aaron Schwartz.

[-] osanna@lemmy.vg 2 points 4 hours ago

It’s actually Swartz, not schwartz

[-] boydster@sh.itjust.works 6 points 5 hours ago

A couple I haven't seen yet but both were impactful to me: Prince and David Bowie. Both deaths felt so close in time together and came by complete surprise.

[-] Hayduke@lemmy.world 13 points 7 hours ago
[-] Today@lemmy.world 3 points 4 hours ago

I remember the day. So sad. My husband still gets emotional when the topic comes up.

I wonder if Joe Rogan would be less of an idiot if Phil had lived? Probably not. At one taping of News Radio when Rogan did the warmup he said, "i just flew in from the million man march and boy is my hatred of white people tired." We should have known.

[-] NONE_dc@lemmy.world 13 points 7 hours ago
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[-] Vespair@lemmy.zip 16 points 7 hours ago
[-] perishthethought@piefed.social 7 points 7 hours ago

Sorry for the convenience.

[-] theywilleatthestars@lemmy.world 9 points 6 hours ago

Anton Yelchin was so goddamn young and had an entire career ahead of him.

[-] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 5 points 6 hours ago

The few things he got to do were all spectacular. Fuck Chrysler for making the shitty vehicle that ended up killing him.

[-] jared@mander.xyz 14 points 7 hours ago
[-] MTZ@lemmy.world 17 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

Probably Chris Cornell. (I'm old)

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[-] dnick@sh.itjust.works 5 points 6 hours ago

Frank Zappa and Christopher Hitchens. Maybe not personally, but i really feel like there are some losses that the world doesn't realize.

[-] perfectduck@lemmy.world 10 points 7 hours ago
[-] JayGray91@piefed.social 4 points 4 hours ago

This is how I know he passed away?! Fuck me

[-] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 3 points 5 hours ago

Just researched B99 and he had so many great moments, and he was absolutely perfect in the role. I read this thread thinking on each name "yeah him, felt sad about them". Andre here though, yeah that hurts deep

[-] mp3@lemmy.ca 2 points 4 hours ago

My wife and I still quote his Captain Holt character from time to time

Put the gun and the yo-yo down.

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[-] EscanortheArrogant@lemmy.world 5 points 6 hours ago

Kurt Cobain

[-] wuphysics87@lemmy.ml 2 points 5 hours ago

Jimi Hendrix

[-] OhVenus_Baby@lemmy.ml 3 points 5 hours ago
[-] geneva_convenience@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 hour ago

He was a huge Zionist piece of trash

[-] MantisToboggon@lemmy.world 6 points 7 hours ago
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