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submitted 2 weeks ago by 64bithero@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

For me it was Cheater Bennington. Linkin Park music helped me through some hard times and I know some of the more impactful lyrics came from him and what he experienced.

Knowing he couldn’t take it anymore definitely hit Me hard particularly as someone I looked up to from young age …

Who was yours ?

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[-] Town@lemmy.zip 111 points 2 weeks ago
[-] osanna@lemmy.vg 10 points 2 weeks ago

Same. He was such a down to earth person. He was incredibly famous, but he didn’t think he was above anyone. He was a truly good person. RIP Robin

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[-] linkshandig@lemmy.today 60 points 2 weeks ago
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[-] pedz@lemmy.ca 55 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I don't know if he counts as a celebrity but, Aaron Swartz.

[-] osanna@lemmy.vg 9 points 2 weeks ago

It’s actually Swartz, not schwartz

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[-] Kevo@lemmy.world 49 points 2 weeks ago

Chadwick Boseman. I was 24 when he died. I'm mixed and a huge nerd. He was one of the first times I saw representation like that in a comic book hero in a movie or TV show. T'Challa was a king, and his death came out of nowhere

[-] Mothra@mander.xyz 48 points 2 weeks ago
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[-] cerement@slrpnk.net 44 points 2 weeks ago
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[-] iguessimlemming@lemmy.ml 37 points 2 weeks ago

David Bowie. I really mourned him, didn't expect to feel so strongly about someone I never met. Feel like the world got significantly duller and darker since he took off.

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[-] morriscox@lemmy.world 31 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Robin Williams, on my birthday. Great guy, a gamer, and knew his way around computers. It might not have hit as hard if it hadn't been my birthday.

[-] MTZ@lemmy.world 31 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Probably Chris Cornell. (I'm old)

[-] 64bithero@lemmy.world 10 points 2 weeks ago
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[-] jared@mander.xyz 29 points 2 weeks ago
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[-] Today@lemmy.world 9 points 2 weeks ago

I remember the day. So sad. My husband still gets emotional when the topic comes up.

I wonder if Joe Rogan would be less of an idiot if Phil had lived? Probably not. At one taping of News Radio when Rogan did the warmup he said, "i just flew in from the million man march and boy is my hatred of white people tired." We should have known.

[-] davidgro@lemmy.world 27 points 2 weeks ago

Taking the question literally, I'll say Ruth Bader Ginsburg.

[-] SelfHigh5@lemmy.world 20 points 2 weeks ago

She was on HELL of a legal mind but goddammit why didn’t she retire when Obama could have appointed her replacement. The fucking hubris.

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[-] TwodogsFighting@lemdro.id 26 points 2 weeks ago

Margaret Thatcher.

What a happy fucking day.

[-] Omgpwnies@lemmy.world 9 points 2 weeks ago

Had me in the first half....

[-] Vespair@lemmy.zip 25 points 2 weeks ago
[-] perishthethought@piefed.social 14 points 2 weeks ago

Sorry for the convenience.

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[-] normalentrance@lemmy.zip 25 points 2 weeks ago

Chris Cornell hit hard especially when you go back and listen to his lyrics.

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[-] AnimalsDream@slrpnk.net 25 points 2 weeks ago

Leonard Nimoy. Grew up with a lot of Star Trek. Both him and Keanu Reeves helped me understand that it's entirely fine to be introverted.

As I understood it, Nimoy's death was from lung problems that developed as a result of his smoking habit - even though he had quit smoking many years prior that. It was the catalyst I needed to finally say, "I can't wait anymore, time may already be up. I need to quit smoking now." And that was when I finally did quit smoking and make it stick.

[-] 48954246@lemmy.world 23 points 2 weeks ago

John "TotalBiscuit" Bain.

Hit at a rough time for me and at that point I had been following his content for many years.

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[-] theywilleatthestars@lemmy.world 22 points 2 weeks ago

Anton Yelchin was so goddamn young and had an entire career ahead of him.

[-] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 10 points 2 weeks ago

The few things he got to do were all spectacular. Fuck Chrysler for making the shitty vehicle that ended up killing him.

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[-] CelloMike@lemmy.world 22 points 2 weeks ago

Sean Lock

The first time I've felt genuine shock at a celebrity death, RIP undisputed Carrot in a Box champion

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[-] UpperBroccoli@lemmy.blahaj.zone 22 points 2 weeks ago
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[-] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 18 points 2 weeks ago

Hearing about Rush Limbaugh's death made me smile pretty big.

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[-] TheDarkQuark@lemmy.world 15 points 2 weeks ago

Chester Bennington and Kurt Cobain. Although I discovered their songs years after their death.

[-] omgboom@lemmy.world 14 points 2 weeks ago

Anthony Bourdain

[-] fta@lemmy.zip 14 points 2 weeks ago

Norm Macdonald

[-] gajahmada@awful.systems 13 points 2 weeks ago

Well, I read the title and the only thing popped up is Chester.

I always shrugged off celebrity deaths cuz it never affects me before. But that morning my then SO woke me up and I'm in dazed cuz teens me just full of angst lol and how he did it after just released One More Light is too much, I think I avoid listening to LP for a few years after that. It's also after Cornell did it not long before I think? AFAIK they're Godfathers to each other kids.

I think contrary to what generally believe LP lyrics all are Mike's. But understandable since Chester is the one actually sung it. don't think LP would be this big if they didn't have Chester, the band said so themselves (the label want to get rid of Chester at first but they pushed back).

I just wished Mike would just rename the band like Audioslaves did and leave LP as a legacy. Don't get me wrong Emily is badass.

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[-] EscanortheArrogant@lemmy.world 13 points 2 weeks ago

Kurt Cobain

[-] Yosmonkol@piefed.social 12 points 2 weeks ago

Fred Rogers, it was like a grandfather died when he passed.

[-] sanguinepar@lemmy.world 11 points 2 weeks ago

David Lynch. His death hit me like a punch to the heart.

Also Adam Yauch (MCA).

[-] boydster@sh.itjust.works 10 points 2 weeks ago

A couple I haven't seen yet but both were impactful to me: Prince and David Bowie. Both deaths felt so close in time together and came by complete surprise.

[-] dnick@sh.itjust.works 10 points 2 weeks ago

Frank Zappa and Christopher Hitchens. Maybe not personally, but i really feel like there are some losses that the world doesn't realize.

[-] Augustiner@lemmy.world 10 points 2 weeks ago

Mac Miller was probably the worst one… I’m a little younger than him and watching his career from early on felt like watching an older brother develop and making it big. He made the soundtrack to most of my youth.

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[-] sunbeam60@feddit.uk 10 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I dont know why, but Sean Lock, a U.K. stand-up comedian who was the backbone of a couple of U.K. panel shows. He never spoke about his illness, but lost a lot of weight and then suddenly gone. I still watch and laugh out loud from the many, many laugh out loud moments of his career.

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[-] decended_being@midwest.social 10 points 2 weeks ago

Grant Imahara, first person I had a parasocial relationship who died. It was also such a sudden and tragic death.

[-] spy@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 2 weeks ago

Not a celebrity, kind of like @pedz@lemmy.ca, but Daniel Naroditsky.

I did not expect his death would affect me as much as it did. Fuck K.

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[-] Bullerfar@lemmy.world 9 points 2 weeks ago

Definetly Chester Bennington. Linking park inspired me to be a muscisian, Chester inspired me to become a singer. His passing was really hard on me. I really gave up on linking park after the minutes to midnight album, since I see it as the last album where they were honest to their roots and still not too experimental. But after many years I was talking to my wife, and we agree that next time they played in our country, we would see them nomatter what. I shit you not, the next day we saw on the news he was dead. It was almost like we knew it was about time to go watch a show since they wouldn't be around for long. Anyways, I have massive respect for Chester as a guy who delt with my own mental sickness and also have had thoughts of sucide and so on. Chester and linkin park helped me through a lot of tough times. I wish his family all the best.

[-] DaanBanaan@lemmy.world 9 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)
  1. Prince
  2. Lady Di
  3. Amy winehouse
  4. George Michael
[-] fushuan@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 2 weeks ago

You might want to edit Chester

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