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It sounds like there is a power imbalance that would make it unethical yes.
Who tf are you that your parents sent you off with two trained men as protection as I'm sure they have expenses also? Lol.
You're an adult, I guess you can play the baby sitter game to appease your parents, but there's not really a power dynamic there unless you let there be one.
Who tf are you that your parents sent you off with two trained men as protection as I'm sure they have expenses also? Lol.
With only 1 man it would have been "dangerous" LOL
You're an adult,
How do you (pretend to) know?
I figure if you were an underage minor and these are two grown ex-legionnaires there would be no grey area on the ethics of it.
There was another account like this with a similar name. Did you/it get banned?
Something feels very off here.
It's violet, they post to Lemmy as a blogging medium. Sometimes they post updates and such.
Yup also asking questions about sexual inappropriateness. There’s been a few recently. I think there could be AI training.
Yeah, that was me lol. I deleted the first one in the heat of the moment, and the second one because I was offline focusing on a fling.
It is unethical and potentially illegal.
Sounds like it might be fun in the moment, problematic in the medium, and then not problematic in the long run.
If you are an adult, this situation begs the question: why do you need two bodyguards to go on a trip?
If you are not an adult, having someone watching over you makes sense and yes it makes it unethical for you to fuck around with them, and also yes unprofessional of them.
My parents tend to go a bit over the top, people who’ve seen my older posts will know what I mean. The original plan was for a family friend to come along, but I decided against it because it didn’t feel like much of a solo trip anymore. These guys just follow my lead and do whatever I want, so it still feels like a solo trip.
This still doesn't change my answer. Enjoy your trip
Yes, it would be.
Sure they have done questionable things but disobeying instructions from their employer is probably not one of them.
Hahahaha yes!
Yes and it's literally illegal in some jurisdictions.
sounds like grooming to me, and yes this part of the imbalance people are talking about.
this post was submitted on 15 Apr 2026
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