159
top 31 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[-] brucethemoose@lemmy.world 4 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

I think many forums are dying to “attention competition.”

That’s my personal experience.

I kind of want to participate in some forums, but a on-and-off doomscrolling addiction, executive dysfunction and some other stuff sucks up all the time.

And many of my niches have gone to Discord, which is an information black hole yet pings the hell out of me for attention. It’s an abomination. I had to quit it, cold turkey.

Reddit played a role, of course.

[-] auzy1@lemmy.world 10 points 14 hours ago

That's not why

You needed to earn the privilege to answer questions or ask them (I think).

It just became too difficult to get help there or help people.

[-] Rooster326@programming.dev 4 points 8 hours ago

This joke is marked duplicate.

This joke has been made before, and already has a laugh track. If those jokes do not fully fulfill your laughter quote, please start a new thread

[-] iocase@lemmy.zip 12 points 10 hours ago
[-] lvxferre@mander.xyz 41 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

In a smaller or larger degree, any internet environment where you can ask questions has the same problem, attrition. It looks like this:

[First thread]
Alice: "How do I shot web?"
Bob: "You just HDGLKSKTR the DLASFD in the SKSTGA".
Alice: "Thanks, Bob. What's HDGLKSKTR?"
Charlie: "Please do not ask separated questions in the comments. Open another thread to do it."

[Second thread]
Alice: "What's HDGLKSKTR? I need it to shot web."
Dan: "It's the FGDJ of the DSKFD. You config it through SFDH."

[Third thread]
Alice: "Whats FGDJ?"
Ed: "why do you want to know it? lol lmao."
Alice: "I asked how to shot web. Then someone told me I need to HDGLKSKTR the DLASFD in the SKSTGA. Then I asked what's HDGLKSKTR. They told me it's the FGDJ of the DSKFD, configured through SFDH. I don't know any of those acronyms, I just want to shot web."
[Radio silence]

[Fourth thread]
Alice: "Whats FGDJ? I need it to shot web."
Fran: "You don't need FGDJ to shot web lol lmao."
Gerald: "Such basic question lol lmao. Use the search."
***⟨blink⟩Jean Niteur⟨/blink⟩*** ==[MOD]==: "Your question was removed as duplicate."

Then Alice spends two days searching the site for "FGDJ". No other thread about the topic pops up, except her own. But in the meantime, she notices someone else answered the second thread.

[Second thread, again]
Fran: "Actually it's «shoot», not «shot»."
Alice: "OK. And what's HDGLKSKTR? I need it to «shoot» web."
[Radio silence]

[Fifth thread]
Alice: "Why is this site so fucking shitty? I've been trying to shoot web for three days, some people tried to help me (thank you, Bob and Dan!), but when asking follow-up questions it's like everyone went out of their way to waste my time without helping me.
Gerald: "entitled lol lmao X-D"
Hector: "toxic"
***⟨blink⟩Jean Niteur⟨/blink⟩*** ==[MOD]==: "Your question was removed as not-a-question. Additionally, you've been banned for 3d for incivility. Make sure you read the FAQ, the Code of Conduct, Posting Guidelines and Commenting Guidelines."

[-] 1984@lemmy.today 13 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

It's just awful moderation. There is a certain kind of moderator who feels that they need to take action all the time to justify their title, even when the best course of action is to do nothing.

You need to be a calm steady person to do nothing and feel fine with it.

[-] lvxferre@mander.xyz 3 points 14 hours ago

Yup, pretty much. It's that dumb enforcement of the rules for the sake of the rules, instead of what they were made for: to ensure the community thrives. In the meantime they turn a blind eye to behaviour that technically doesn't violate rules, but harms the community — it's Charlie mini-modding, Ed showing disdain with "lol" and "lmao", Fran adding noise with that "ackshyually" without addressing the matter at hand…

In Stack Overflow, large subreddits, and some old-fashioned BBC forums all this shit compounds, until the only users "surviving" there sound like pieces of shit.

[-] cinoreus@lemmy.world 5 points 17 hours ago

I love the fact that even for ranting about internet forums you chose alice and bob for the example😭.

[-] lvxferre@mander.xyz 3 points 14 hours ago

I wish English had "placeholder names" like Portuguese (Fulano, Beltrano, Sicrano — they work like a charm for situations like this, where you want to represent some random nobodies).

[-] Cort@lemmy.world 3 points 11 hours ago

It's not used much outside computer science, but there is a list; Alice and Bob are both on it.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alice_and_Bob

Scroll down for the full cast of names

[-] lvxferre@mander.xyz 1 points 9 hours ago

I'm aware of that list. I mean names used exclusively as placeholders. Like "thingamajig" or "ACME" but for people.

Because, for example. Let's say I told you a story about "Alice". Without "Bob", "Charlie" etc. to offer you context, it's ambiguous if I'm talking about a real person called Alice, or if it's just a placeholder name. The same wouldn't happen with PT "Fulano" — because it isn't a personal name like Alice, it's used exclusively as a placeholder.

Some also use John Doe, I guess. Or John Smith. But the same issue. (Or perhaps I'm just babbling about language as usual, sorry.)

[-] it_depends_man@lemmy.world 69 points 1 day ago

It is also dead due to how repulsive the place was. Literally.

[-] panda_abyss@lemmy.ca 67 points 1 day ago

As a power-whiner that racked up points on low value “acshually” style response comments, I’ve decided to lock your questions and edit the body of your question for you.

Please come back when your question is:

  • Vague enough it no longer describes your issue or context
  • Specific enough that it doesn’t match the 50 other posts you read that failed to help you
  • And I roll a d20 and reach a value greater than 18.
[-] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago

10/10 no notes

[-] AyuTsukasa@lemmy.zip 29 points 1 day ago

Literally any question I asked was met by some snide asshole. Like I'm at the stage where I don't know the jargon to explain my issue and that was somehow an affront to God to them. I get it, repeat questions suck, but the answers they'd link to didn't help me because I couldn't understand the jargon in the answers.

[-] RamenJunkie@midwest.social 13 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

"Why are you using PHP instead of Py Go ++ Framework???? Its way betger for use cases of 100,000 people or more."

Nevermind that you may be supporting a legacy system used by 20 people that runs on a literal potato anyway.

[-] RamRabbit@lemmy.world 14 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

If one suspects there is a better answer to 'the question behind the question':

  1. answer the actual question that was asked, then

  2. ask the question behind the question and answer that too.

Infuriating when people only do the latter. Particularly when I come by a question that is my EXACT problem, and none of the answers even attempt to answer the question that was asked.

Sorry, your question was marked as fugly and it was already answered in [picture of a cock covered in poop here].

[-] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 22 points 1 day ago

Closed. Reason: duplicate.

[-] FaceDeer@fedia.io 27 points 1 day ago

Looks like it was already on a long-term decline, AI just threw it off a cliff. It was likely ripe for an alternative.

[-] panda_abyss@lemmy.ca 25 points 1 day ago

It got pretty toxic

You can tell by the fact that Covid has a massive influx into tech and the platform rapidly collapsed at that time.

If your question was good it would go unanswered because a lot of pros abandoned the platform, if you were new it was too technical, and if you were junior your question was marked as a dupe and you were told to look at a 12 year old question from an ancient version of a library that’s not supported.

Sometimes someone would correct an old post to update it, but because it would never get seen they’d never bubble up to replace the comically old answers.

They burned the candle at both ends by not being good for newbs or experienced devs.

[-] codexarcanum@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Damn, I hadn't visited the site (according to my profile page) in just over 5 years. I've had an account for little over 17 years, which puts me in the early adopters.

Anyway, yeah, I'm one of those top-end commenters that left the site during Covid because everything went to shit: too many new low quality questions, too many assholes whining about it and overreacting making the problem worse, and the owners had basically already abandoned the site for years after Stack Exchange failed to become the dominant framework for the entire internet.

It's a real shame, there's never been a resource so good for programming and probably never will be again. Now that AI is out there stealing every bit of knowledge, all the experts I know are hoarding up and looking to sell their expertise at premium since it's knowledge and experience that AI can't get or replicate.

[-] scottedwards200@piefed.world 1 points 21 hours ago

Where are your friends selling their expertise? A new business opportunity for paid SO? Ala “expert sex change”?

[-] pr06lefs@lemmy.ml 16 points 1 day ago

just a shitty place to get help. gave up contributing there years ago because of all the gatekeeping. their janky login popup didn't help either.

[-] panda_abyss@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 day ago

It was very fun when you answered a few questions and unlocked privileges.

Then we all got a reminder why some people aren’t invited to parties.

[-] RamenJunkie@midwest.social 12 points 1 day ago

Its dead because its biggest users are useless asshokes.

[-] scottedwards200@piefed.world 10 points 1 day ago

Not sure where to go now though. Codidact.com is growing at least but it’s still really small

[-] nooch@lemmy.vg 2 points 1 day ago

Thanks for sharing!

[-] cows_are_underrated@feddit.org 2 points 1 day ago

For some reason, they managed to fuck up their login page so much, that it is literally impossible for me to sign up to it. I have tried multiple times in the last year and every single time I could not sign up for some weird reason.

[-] jbrains@sh.itjust.works -2 points 1 day ago

Not because AI replaced SO, but because AI replaced programmers. 🤷

[-] aeronmelon@lemmy.world -1 points 1 day ago

Also, Nazis.

this post was submitted on 26 May 2026
159 points (99.4% liked)

Hacker News

4900 readers
567 users here now

Posts from the RSS Feed of HackerNews.

The feed sometimes contains ads and posts that have been removed by the mod team at HN.

Source of the RSS Bot

founded 2 years ago
MODERATORS