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[-] LittleFellaNamedBoof@hexbear.net 151 points 2 days ago

I remember one time when I was very young and working as cashier at a grocery store a family came through (mom, dad, and like 2 year old kid). They scanned their EBT card and it came up like 1.25$ short. The mom said she would put the bread back and I just did a manual coupon for 1.25$ to 0 out their balance instead. They acted as if I'd just done something so amazing for them but like this is a multi-million dollar company I think it can afford to give you a 1.25$ coupon so you can have bread? To me it wasn't even a big deal. We gave stupid boomers coupons to shut them up when they compained all the time. But America is so backwards that helping someone out in need is seen as a shocking thing. While it's entirely normal to give free stuff to annoying petit-bourgeois who are having a temper tandrum.

[-] ClassIsOver@hexbear.net 107 points 2 days ago

Many places in the US have laws that prevent you from feeding the homeless. Most, if not every state has laws to prevent you from dumpster diving, but also laws to prevent you from giving away food that you're going to throw away. Kids can rack up lunch debt.

[-] Azarova@hexbear.net 77 points 2 days ago

"School lunch debt" is one of the most vile phrases in the English language.

[-] tocopherol@hexbear.net 25 points 2 days ago

I'd almost rather have that debt than get the "emergency lunch" they would give me when I didn't have lunch as a kid. They gave you a brown bag so everyone knew you were broke, and the entire lunch was two pieces of bread with american cheese and an apple, and some juice or milk.

[-] LittleFellaNamedBoof@hexbear.net 33 points 2 days ago

When I was a kid I have memories of filling up my tray with food then when I got to the cash register to pay and my parents hadn't put money on my account they'd take the tray, throw all the food in the trash right in front of me, and give me a roll with a slice of american cheese on it. I was 5.

[-] redsteel@lemmygrad.ml 5 points 1 day ago

It was slightly different for me, had to first be registered on the poors / eternal renters list with the school, after which they'd give you a booklet of paper tabs (like pull-tabs or the old food stamps system), and you presented one of those to the cafeteria cashier after getting your tray of prison-tier carbs, saturated fats, and refined sugars.

Never had anything thrown out in front of my face, but got to sit and watch everyone else eat because I knew I wasn't getting shit without that little paper tab quite a few times.

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[-] LeeeroooyJeeenkiiins@hexbear.net 71 points 2 days ago

my job throws away mountains of food and we'll be fired if we take any home even though we all openly did for years until a guy was like no that's against corporate policy

[-] peeonyou@hexbear.net 43 points 2 days ago

burger king had a lock on their food waste bin.. i used to purposely leave it unlocked in the hopes it was helping someone somewhere

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[-] Dimmer06@hexbear.net 32 points 2 days ago

I saw this when I was a grocery cashier too and it's crazy how easy it was to make someone's day by just giving them a dollar discount or something stupid like that. They treat you like a saint afterwards. I'd do it all the time and nobody ever said anything to me about it because the customers loved me.

[-] invalidusernamelol@hexbear.net 4 points 1 day ago

I used to do the same thing at a gas station. We were surrounded by the industrial parks and a lot of trailer parks. The owner was too cheap to get any scanners so everything was hand priced and have rung in.

It was so easy to just see when someone came up with more than they had money for and just "forget" to ring half of it in.

[-] DasRav@hexbear.net 56 points 2 days ago

If I were Chinese, I would have so much fin asking "clueless" questions to USians.

[-] chgxvjh@hexbear.net 49 points 2 days ago

They made a whole app for that xhs-doge

[-] Belly_Beanis@hexbear.net 74 points 2 days ago

People in the US don't actually starve to death. They die from exposure and malnutrition first 🙃

[-] infuziSporg@hexbear.net 16 points 2 days ago

Most cities have food banks, but in some places, to access them you need to take on the expense/debt of operating a car.

[-] TheBroodian@hexbear.net 9 points 1 day ago

In America, having a car is more essential to survival than shelter agony-shivering

[-] infuziSporg@hexbear.net 5 points 1 day ago

In many cases, but not all.

There are people who live out of their cars (no judgment there), and there are people who live without being dependent on a car for daily life. "Dependent" would mean most commonly using a car to go to work or school, the grocery store, friends' houses, and whatever civic or religious or social organizations.

I live in a place where shelter is not that much more expensive than car ownership, a bike supplies >90% of my local travel needs, and buses and the occasional carpool make up the difference. 8% of households don't own cars, 10% of adults drive "seldom" or "never", according to Pew. I would suspect that about 1-2% of Americans live like I do, while maybe as much as 25% are capable of it.

Relevant to the OP, there is a food pantry I can walk to, but when I used it, carrying everything back was often very heavy and either required multiple trips or made my arms hurt. I wouldn't say "lifting 50 pounds while hiking a mile" is very accessible, especially by the fitness standard of the average American.

Then again, if everyone had access to a bike cart or even a little wagon, it would be fine.

Also relevant to the OP, the US has 78 cars per 100 people, while China has 33. The rest of the world is largely doing a much better job at making places that don't require cars to live in them.

[-] Inui@hexbear.net 86 points 2 days ago

Another benefit of US users getting on Red Note and learning about Chinese culture was the average Chinese person finding out how bad it really is in the US. Obviously things don't compare to some parts of the world, but a lot of them honestly didn't believe we have such a problem of homelessness, drug use, poverty, and so on.

[-] Saymaz@lemmygrad.ml 37 points 2 days ago

"What do you mean you don't have government run community canteens?"

[-] ConcreteHalloween@hexbear.net 54 points 2 days ago

NGL I'm skeptical of all these "I went to China and everything and everyone was BASED!" posts.

I think China is a geopolitical force for good on the world, but it's also a big country that I'm sure has lots of disfunction and people who are assholes.

[-] CloutAtlas@hexbear.net 42 points 2 days ago

You'd be surprised, some people are actually completely unaware of how a bunch of basic things work in the west. My younger cousin, who had never left China and is also extremely offline (for a zoomer), once asked me what's the deal with lawns. Like "Who maintains them? Is it like plants in parks? Why are they there?". The more I explained it, the more confused she got.

So you can't not have grass, everyone has grass. But it also can't be too long. And you have to spend extra money keep it alive in a drought (which Australia experiences fairly frequently). And you have to spend money on equipment to cut it, or spend more money hiring someone else to cut it. If you're renting, not maintaining the landlord's grass will get you in trouble and possibly evicted. And you have to keep weeds out.

Now, she was 19 at that point in time, so fairly naive. But still.

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[-] SickSemper@hexbear.net 20 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I don’t think that’s what this post is saying. A very real phenomenon on Xiaohongshu is Chinese citizens just straight up not knowing how bad it is in America. Of course there are assholes, but this post isn’t about how all Chinese ppl are saints (plenty of anti black and anti Indian racism), it’s about how by and large America isn’t understood as the predatory capitalist hell that it is. When I joined the app, it was a common misconception that every American owned and lived in a McMansion style home, and some Chinese users straight up called people liars for describing experiences with poverty, homelessness, medical bills etc

[-] veniasilente@lemmy.dbzer0.com 66 points 2 days ago

China doesn't have to be BASED, and likely isn't. It just has to be better enough than the US, which in the 2020s is an embarrassingly low bar to pass.

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[-] PunkMonk@lemmygrad.ml 28 points 2 days ago

Instead of having this feeling of skepticism and judging China through unserious posts like these, watch some videos of people travelling and/or living in China, watch a documentary and/or read about how their governance works, listen to the Deprogram podcast episode on China they did a few months back. Then you can have a real, nuanced personal opinion formed through your own marxist judgement and factual analysis.

[-] QinShiHuangsShlong@lemmy.ml 47 points 2 days ago

I think it makes sense when you remember that alot of the bad is being controlled out of it through people being tourists and likely not speaking high level or in many cases any Chinese.

Tourists are not really going to interact with many/if any of the systems with real issues like the hukou system but will have daily interaction with systems that work incredibly well like the metros.

And then through not speaking the language spotting assholes becomes exponentially less likely.

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[-] MrSulu@lemmy.ml 32 points 2 days ago

The product of generational convincing of populations to have automatic irrational fear of anything that isn't ultra-capitalism.

[-] Hohsia@hexbear.net 49 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

The harsh reality is that if you have some sort of redeemable quality to the capitalist class (a lot of the time that means being white and neurotypical), you can at least be thrown into the mix of a comically absurd bureaucratic pipeline (local and statewide orgs as well as Christian churches) giving you the bare minimum

If you miss one channel along the way though, you will surely be shamed by liberals for not accepting help

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