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[-] FMT99@lemmy.world 30 points 1 year ago

Hah loner. My two friends do know each other.

[-] 30p87@feddit.de 13 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Same! Blåhaj 1 and Blåhaj 2 are great friends.

[-] Senseless@feddit.de 6 points 1 year ago

Aweee, they need names! How about.. William Sharkspeare?

[-] idunnololz@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

My two friends are cats :)

[-] reflex@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago
[-] idunnololz@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I've been having issues posting to the cats community and I've been too lazy to figure out why. Maybe I'll spend some time looking into it this weekend.

[-] gjoel@lemmy.ml 26 points 1 year ago

It's a chat with your friend and his friend, who you don't really like, but for some reason have to see whenever you see your friend because now it's become the thing you do.

[-] Azuth@lemmy.today 9 points 1 year ago

Is this person 20 years older than their pfp implies? I'm 35 and have been in group chats with friends since the mIRC days in 2003.

[-] MudMan@kbin.social 31 points 1 year ago

They're faking. Everybody knows after 35 "a group chat" is where your surviving family shares fascist memes.

[-] sloppy_diffuser@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 year ago

Yep. Luckily my family will only use Facebook and I'm the crazy tin foil hat wearing uncle preaching everyone's after your data.

[-] sigmaklimgrindset@sopuli.xyz 7 points 1 year ago

Pretty sure their pfp is young Natalie Portman…

[-] modifier@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 year ago

Lies, but that is the dream.

[-] ExfilBravo@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

My friends are imaginary and they still don't know each other.

[-] Linuturk@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Do you mean IRC?

[-] Maxx@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago

Group chats are the thing where you can post links in teams meetings.

[-] affiliate@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

it’s kinda like a more informal email that you do with your “pleasure/utility friends” (to quote aristotle’s theory of friendship 🤓).

[-] MrBusiness@lemmy.zip 7 points 1 year ago

pleasure/utility friends

What in tarnation are those descriptors

[-] affiliate@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

the basic idea (as i understand it, but it’s been a while) is as follows. “pleasure friends” are friends that you only do certain (fun) things with, and the friendship is likely to die once either of you stop doing those things. for example, a friend that you only play video games with, or only go to bars with, etc. if you lose interest in a game, the friendship may be over, and it’s usually not a big deal when it happens.

“utility friends” are similar, but instead of doing fun stuff together, it’s more about doing useful things. maybe an example could be friends that you only really study with. they’re probably pleasant to be around, but the main reason you spend time together is that they make studying easier (and hopefully it’s mutually beneficial, but it doesn’t have to be).

the last and hitherto unmentioned group of friends are the “real friendships” or something like that. these are the people that you care about on a deeper level, and who play more prominent roles in many different areas of your life, or something.

this post was submitted on 26 Nov 2023
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