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[-] rotopenguin@infosec.pub 78 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Patch notes: clause unnecessary. Refactored to cover the general case.

[-] ILikeBoobies@lemmy.ca 2 points 10 months ago

Bi_irl

[-] jeremyparker@programming.dev 65 points 10 months ago

Person doesn't want to date person with OF

Person with OF doesn't want to date person

It seems the universe is in harmony.

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[-] joyjoy@lemm.ee 60 points 10 months ago

What about a guy with an onlyfans?

[-] Deceptichum@kbin.social 93 points 10 months ago

They don’t want to date me either.

[-] FartsWithAnAccent@kbin.social 35 points 10 months ago

Hmm, have you tried wearing a fancy hat?

[-] blanketswithsmallpox@lemmy.world 3 points 10 months ago

Peacock. Neg. Kino. Close.

M'person.

[-] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago

Really? The missing link that makes pickup artist nonsense work is Keno? And here I thought it was the fedora and delusion!

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[-] peopleproblems@lemmy.world 48 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

So ive put a lot of thot into this, and after going through what I did with my ex wife, I think it wouldn't be a problem so long as

A. I know about it.

B. I get access to it and all paid content

C. No one else appears in it. This covers the whole "well that was an old video I uploaded" scenario too.

D. The relationship is otherwise secure.

E. But the real problem would be someone with an onlyfans wanting to date me.

[-] Bunnylux@lemmy.world 61 points 10 months ago

It's fine to not want to date someone with an onlyfans, but I feel like the guys who go out of their way to say it usually have other red flags about

[-] HonoraryMancunian@lemmy.world 8 points 10 months ago

Basically men who: —

Could never get a woman that hot

Get jealous easily

Don't like women having agency over their sexuality

Don't like women having agency over themselves full stop

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[-] agitatedpotato@lemmy.world 6 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

I just ask that people realize what I realize, which is it's an issue with ME that I'm not secure enough to be with a person who I can see having sex with someone else. I cannot control my feelings but I am responsible for them, or at the very least, other people are not responsible for them(at least in this example anyway it's not as if the of model was having sex with other people AT me.)

[-] Bunnylux@lemmy.world 17 points 10 months ago

It's ok to be monogamous :)

[-] agitatedpotato@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Oh absolutely, I dont feel bad about that. But the feeling I get thinking about being with someone who does that kind of stuff is exactly a feeling of insecurity. It's fine and normal, same way its normal to have a little anxiety or a little depression. In healthy doses it's essentially just personality traits, but to me those feeling stem from insecurity. Perhaps it's even innate and not something to be 'fixed' but it still feels like insecurity to me. But I'm realizing that I suppose I can only speak for myself here.

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[-] RootBeerGuy@discuss.tchncs.de 14 points 10 months ago

Ehehehehee, a lot of thot. Nice.

[-] HonoraryMancunian@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago

I wouldn't mind C, so long as it's someone where all 3 of us are willing to have some fun together privately anyway

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[-] Tarkcanis@lemmy.world 35 points 10 months ago

A gal with a decent income!? Sign me up!

[-] skeeter_dave@sh.itjust.works 9 points 10 months ago

Yeah if you consider $100-$180 a month "decent income"

[-] A_Very_Big_Fan@lemmy.world 3 points 10 months ago

The market is extremely saturated. I'm willing to bet most people could make more reliable money doing door dash

[-] afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago

I can't imagine most are making much money.

[-] qooqie@lemmy.world 33 points 10 months ago

Honestly I wouldn’t care too much it’s the weirdos who would harass her that would make me not like it.

[-] troyunrau@lemmy.ca 13 points 10 months ago

Yeah, the drama that comes with it is probably the biggest issue -- it will occupy some part of your cognitive energy.

[-] Facebones@reddthat.com 16 points 10 months ago

I've dated a couple hot chicks back before OF and cam sites were mainstream, and honestly it's tedious if you aren't equally attractive. I wouldn't have dated them if I wasn't confident in the relationship but it's still tedious when dudes will walk right up to yall and hit on her in front of her when you're obviously together.

It's probably not something that'd be a problem now that I'm in my 30s, but I wouldn't know cause I don't get dates these days anyway 😂

[-] Titou@feddit.de 9 points 10 months ago

always the "no revenues guys" who drop the first line

[-] Potatos_are_not_friends@lemmy.world 14 points 10 months ago

I hung out with my incel nephew and his friends. They went on and on about phoney girls with fake boobs.

When I asked if any of them ever touched a "fake boob" before, the silence. Then the "Are any of you dating?" And yep, all I needed to know about them.

[-] smileyhead@discuss.tchncs.de 7 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Yes. Girl does not have to be a superstart to send pics on OnlyFans and similar. Fetishes exists, she can show feet and have ugly face.

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