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[-] kabe@lemmy.world 120 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

English teacher here. Articles in English can be really confusing but essentially we use the definite article in this situation because:

  • Uniqueness: In most situations, there's only one mirror in a room or a home that's readily available for someone to look into.
  • Generality: Similar to "going to the bathroom," "look in the mirror" refers to the general act of using a mirror to see oneself, not interacting with any specific mirror.
[-] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 5 points 1 year ago

Tell me you haven't read Jonathan Strange without telling me you haven't read Jonathan Strange 😏 obviously it's because all mirrors are connected - as entrances to the King's Way of old.

[-] ALERT@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago

Ukrainian here. IMO, the first statement is half-stupid, the second one is half-overcomplicated :) no offense to you personally, of course. I understand the whole concept of articles in English and know (at least I thought I knew before this post) their correct usage, and in all use cases I can remember the article uses are logically acceptable for a foreigner, but this one with the mirror and the bathroom is messed up a bit :)

[-] kabe@lemmy.world 17 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

IMO, the first statement is half-stupid, the second one is half-overcomplicated :)

Welcome to English, my friend. No one ever claimed that it wasn't a pain in the arse to learn :)

[-] ALERT@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 year ago

:) no, it's not, because for people to understand you you don't need to grasp 75% of the concepts of the English language, and IMO, this is the measure of "pain in the ass" of a language. so still not even half as complicated as Ukrainian and not even half a pain in the ass as Ukrainian :)

[-] jaybone@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

The second example is quite good imo. You would never say “I’m going to a bathroom.” Even if you were in a stadium with hundreds of bathrooms, you would still say you are going to the bathroom.

Same as you might say I’m taking the train. Not usually taking a train, though I’ve heard that too sometimes. Though oddly you usually say I’m taking a plane, not the plane. Also I’m taking the freeway, not a freeway. I’m usually going to the doctor, less often than a doctor.

[-] ALERT@sh.itjust.works -2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

The second example is quite good imo. You would never say “I’m going to a bathroom.” Even if you were in a stadium with hundreds of bathrooms, you would still say you are going to the bathroom.

you are justifying this statement "because of reasons" :) this is not a logical explanation. there are a bunch of bathrooms in the world. Am I going to the one specific that was mentioned before in the context? then it's "to the bathroom". is this bathroom just a random one that I will encounter on my way? then why not "to a bathroom"?

same with trains: even if you are speaking about a train route with a specific number, you are not talking about a specific train, then it should be "I'll be taking a train". if you are going to take the specific locomotive for a ride in a museum, then, obviously, you are going to take "the train". this sounds logical for the usage of Articles in the English language, at least in my head.

same with doctors: if you are going to a specific doctor, and your opponent knows which one by the context, then it should be "to the doctor", otherwise it would be a random doctor that will be assigned to you as soon as you arrive to the clinic, it cannot be "the doctor" by the same principle I always thought exists :)

I'm not even talking about the option of using a subject without an article, like in Ukrainian. "I'm going to bathroom". if I wanted to say which one, I would have stated it, but as soon as I am going to pee in a random bathroom I find, why can't it be just "I'm going to bathroom"? :D yeah, now it sounds like a verb :D

whoa, another meaningless "the" appeared. "The English Language" phrasing is used despite there are at least four? five? English languages.

so... it's complicated :D but this does not prevent English from being The Language of the World, and I cannot name a language that could have been on its place.

[-] SurpriZe@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

This is gold! But what I also find confusing is the ultimate difference between Present Perfect and Past Simple...

[-] Hexarei@programming.dev 1 points 1 year ago

My autistic ass has always thought of it as "I'm going to the (specific) bathroom (that I will be using)"

[-] schnurrito@discuss.tchncs.de 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

In languages that distinguish definiteness (e.g. English) usually if you're talking about a "kind of thing", you can use either the definite or indefinite form and make sense. Only if you're talking about a specific thing does the distinction matter: "a mirror" = a mirror I'm now introducing and you don't know about yet, "the mirror" = the mirror we talked about before and you already know about; but either form can mean "mirrors in general". There are slight stylistic differences what's preferred in what contexts depending on the language, but in German too you can say "in den Spiegel schauen".

[-] yoevli@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

My assumption would be that it's because we don't really look at mirrors per se but rather the reflection in them, so the definite article is indicating the fungibility of the mirror itself. This total speculation on my part though and I might be totally wrong.

[-] criitz@reddthat.com 3 points 1 year ago

I like this interpretation. Fungible is a great way to describe the function of the physical mirror in the phrasing.

[-] BradleyUffner@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I look in the mirror when I have a specific mirror in mind when I say it. Otherwise it's a mirror.

[-] Bolt@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Maybe there's a cultural idea about mirrors being somehow "the same". After all, a mirror shows the same thing regardless of which one it is. Or related in cultural mythology to a singular adjoining world that contains your doppelganger (in such media, you don't usually have a separate mirror-self for every mirror, but one that can be accessed from any mirror). Also could be a turn of phrase that stuck without a good reason.

[-] CosmoNova@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

Because no matter in what mirror you look, they‘re all the same. That‘s why we say the clock or the calendar. It‘s universal.

[-] ALERT@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago

how about "going to the doctor"? :D

[-] CosmoNova@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

We say "the doctor" when talking about the concept of a doctor. We tend say "my doctor" and not "the doctor" when talking about what our respective doctor told us. Kind of like how we refer to the clock as "my clock" when we notice a difference to the universally accepted concept.

[-] ALERT@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago

so "a" is universal for clock, but "the" is universal for doctor :D

[-] owenfromcanada@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

We like to think English follows a consistent set of rules.

It doesn't.

[-] Nemo@midwest.social 6 points 1 year ago

Because there's only one mirror world and all mirrors are windows into it.

[-] LesserAbe@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Yes, that's what I came here to say

[-] grte@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 year ago

I suspect it has to do with being a sort of household appliance. Similar to the fridge, the TV, the bathtub, etc. People think about it in that sense most frequently and it becomes the common parlance.

[-] mcavoya@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

I can't answer your question. But I'll bet it's the same reason we say we saw something "on the TV."

[-] glimse@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

I feel like that's an elderly thing. Most people cut out the "the"

[-] ThatOneKirbyMain2568@kbin.earth 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I'm not a linguist, but here's my guess.

Take these sentences where a similar thing happens.

  • "Look out the window."
  • "I'm heading to the gym."
  • "You should hold the door for people."
  • "You need a trip to the barber."

In these cases, the noun isn't actually that important, more than it is what you're doing with the noun. These nouns represent the general act of doing something, and I guess since that action is a singular specific thing, we use "the".

This applies to "Look in the mirror." The actual mirror doesn't really matter much. The focus is on the general act of looking at your clear reflection.

[-] Today@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Do you think maybe 'a mirror' refers to actually visually looking at a mirror and 'the mirror' refers to taking inventory of yourself? Unless there's actually a mirror nearby that you're referring to.

[-] AgentGrimstone@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Makes sense to me because I'm referring to a specific mirror, the one in my bathroom.

[-] kakes@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I feel like it has to do with the "mystical" or metaphorical perception of mirrors, especially early on.

Like, as if looking "into a mirror" is analogous to looking "into a (or rather: the) mirror world", if that makes sense.

Kind of the same reason we use the preposition "in" or "into" rather than the more physically correct "at".

[-] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Mirrors used to be expensive so I imagine it came from a whole family sharing just 1. And perhaps they were not common enough for them to even think about other mirrors. So they would just refer to the singular mirror they had.

[-] Krafting@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Imo, it's because "the mirror" means "the reflexion in the mirror" you rarely actually look a mirror itself

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