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[-] 2ugly2live@lemmy.world 9 points 3 months ago

I don't know if this is a hot take, but I think people need to stop basing their lives off of celebrities/influencers. We equate wealth with some hidden knowledge, when they're just people. Sometimes really fucking stupid people who happen to have a profitable talent. Next time some tries to sell you something or teach you something, ask yourself if this person is even an authority/knowledgeable on what they're talking about. I've gotten in the habit of mentally going "and you are?" when I get new information. Sometimes you find our that person is a leader in their field. Sometimes it's just some terminally online teenager.

Hotter Take: I think black people put too much stock in celebrities and what they'll do for the black community. You don't get freakishly wealthy being a sweetheart. Jay Z is not going to save us. And our blind loyalty has us supporting subpar performances and people because we "have to support" and it keeps fucking us over. No, I'm not supporting this business just because it's black owned if the service/quality sucks (especially since black owned goods tend to be more expensive).

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[-] hostops@sh.itjust.works 9 points 3 months ago

Realists are just pessimists.

You should be an optimist even if you are faking it. To lift others up.

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[-] VinesNFluff@pawb.social 7 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

More and more people are against giving kids internet access. Allow me to go against the grain:

If your child is neurodivergent, or LGBTQ+, or any other form of misfit, then denying them internet access is tantamount to condemning them to social isolation. It wasn't until I got unrestricted internet access, circa 17 years of age, that I realised that actually, no, I wasn't a fucking alien, there were hundreds of thousands of people just like me, but I didn't know because I was stuck in this shitty small town with shitty small town people. So I spent seventeen years thinking there was something fundamentally wrong with me when in reality there was something wrong with the environment around me.

I would have had a much happier early life if I'd gotten internet earlier. Wouldn't have spent 90% of my teens being suicidal.

[-] axzxc1236@lemm.ee 6 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Humans are doomed, destroy themselves one way or another.

[-] folkrav@lemmy.ca 4 points 3 months ago

Life itself is probably doomed by sheer laws of entropy lol

[-] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 6 points 3 months ago

If someone's too dangerous to own a gun they should be institutionalized until they're no longer a danger. Just taking guns away from them won't prevent them from being a problem.

[-] wuphysics87@lemmy.ml 5 points 3 months ago

Define "too dangerous to own a gun"

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[-] frauddogg@lemmygrad.ml 6 points 3 months ago

That Amerikans don't deserve any special consideration, and in fact, deserve a Century of Humiliation where the odious "please collaborate in our genocide so the ~~cryptofascist oligarchy~~ Democracy™ that ~~anglo-saxon, protestant-descended magnates and a small fraction of uplifted misleaders~~ we All™ enjoy will be saved!" brainworm is concerned.

Yes. My principles do matter to me more than you do at this point if you're going to look me in the face and tell me I have to support a genocider, all so you (or whatever minority you're about to only care about long enough to use as a cudgel) can remain comfortable.

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[-] ThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.world 5 points 3 months ago

The bear would eat women alive while they simp for an actual killer.

[-] boogetyboo@aussie.zone 9 points 3 months ago

Imagine using the word simp

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[-] frauddogg@lemmygrad.ml 7 points 3 months ago

Holy red flag, Batman

[-] Rev3rze@feddit.nl 7 points 3 months ago

The point of that meme as I took it is to illustrate the uncertainty women face when it comes to the intentions of (strange) men. The bear, an actual killer, at least is predictable. Not a criticism of your hot take btw, just sharing my thoughts on this meme.

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[-] Ashyr@sh.itjust.works 5 points 3 months ago

Pepper Mills are overrated.

[-] treadful@lemmy.zip 6 points 3 months ago
[-] Ashyr@sh.itjust.works 5 points 3 months ago

It's a hot take! Wouldn't be good if it weren't inflammatory.

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