Everyone is allowed sexual preferences. I do think if you're in a position where your sister is calling you out, you should consider how and when you are expressing those opinions.
I think I just said "I prefer women with big knockers and big butts, I'm not sure what's with people liking stick figures these days"
We were discussing casually our ideal partners. She told me she likes her dudes tall and skinny etc..
Then she hit me with the "joeandmac, you're being a bit of a pig"
I think "a bit" is fair to call out. A slightly crass of a way of putting it, but valid overall.
Did you call her out for being a pig who likes tall skinny guys? Same energy.
You're allowed to be attracted to a certain type. I like curvy people, too, because hugging them is fucking awesome. I don't think that makes you a pig. A pig is someone who ogles and cat-calls.
Do you treat the women with respect, know that they agency, and accept the fact they are people? If yes, not a pig. You just have a preferred type.
Yes? I never questioned any of that. I don't cat call or anything of the sort.
Then your sister may be projecting her concerns on you to.
Not a pig.
Personals, dating advice, have at it.