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Please I want to stop pretending to be a youtuber while I talk out loud to myself about the subject while I lie away or get stuck in the bathroom doing it in front of the mirror in a hyperfocused way while I forget to eat and drink water.

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[-] buckykat@hexbear.net 10 points 3 months ago

You can only expunge them by starting struggle sessions on hexbear dot net about them

[-] Abracadaniel@hexbear.net 8 points 3 months ago

stop exposing yourself to takes that make you mad.

[-] autismdragon@hexbear.net 6 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Sometimes the takes are coming from inside the house!

Or I say something I think would be uncontroversial and someone disagrees and I have to struggle with that for the next few hours lol.

[-] Cowbee@hexbear.net 7 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Please I want to stop pretending to be a youtuber while I talk out loud to myself about the subject while I lie away or get stuck in the bathroom doing it in front of the mirror in a hyperfocused way

Wait, other people do that too? thonk

In my case 99% of it is esoteric Fallout game design theory and other random horseshit no one else cares about boohoo

[-] Robert_Kennedy_Jr@hexbear.net 7 points 3 months ago

Delete your twitter account.

[-] autismdragon@hexbear.net 2 points 3 months ago

Oh, this problem far predates me having a twitter account which I dont even look at struggle sessions on lol.

[-] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 5 points 3 months ago

I have this except it's conversations with people I'm romantically interested in and it only leads to intense pain when none of it ever turns out to be true. What part of my brain do I cut out to never feel romantic attraction again?

[-] GalaxyBrain@hexbear.net 3 points 3 months ago

Reject debate? No one has ever been debated out of their point of view or if anyone has its never made any social difference cause 1 guy got owned once. Anyone who wants a debate or to hear one wants to waste their time and if they hook you, yours as well. The best argument in any debate is lived

[-] autismdragon@hexbear.net 3 points 3 months ago

I can stop debating others and still have shit locked in my head tbh.

[-] GalaxyBrain@hexbear.net 3 points 3 months ago

Continuing the debate in your head can be a good way to sharpen your rhetoric and thereby cut irl debates shorter, so there is some utility there. But if it's getting in the way of stuff, and I've got a similar affliction with anything the he out of stuff and my outlet is star trek. It lacks just the right amount of sense to make your brak notice at around the same time you've become.hooked enough to have gun making up excuses

Tell me one so I can say it's wrong

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