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[-] Fleur_@lemm.ee 2 points 48 minutes ago

99% of people who are opposed to murder will never be murdered, the numbers speak for themselves.

Pro choice just thought the argument was a little funny lol

[-] digdilem@lemmy.ml 6 points 4 hours ago

Plenty of men support abortion - it removes financial responsibility from them, after all. Protests at abortion clinics are often held by women as much as men.

The more important demographic here is that most opposed to abortion are strongly religious.

Look outside the US and you'll see that countries that do support choice are less influenced by the Church. It's not coincidence.

[-] Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works 5 points 2 hours ago

And many of the men who oppose abortions, are massive fucking hypocrits who will gladly have their mistress get an abortion somewhere else.

[-] Agent641@lemmy.world 14 points 9 hours ago

And of the women, probably 1/3rd of them are post-menopausal and won't have any more kids either

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[-] gmtom@lemmy.world 28 points 12 hours ago

This is erasure of the like, 1 maybe 2, trans men that are anti-abortion

[-] Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 hours ago

trans men that are anti-abortion

Well, allow me to be inclusive and say that both cis- and trans men who oppose aborion deserve a very equal kick to the face.

[-] winterayars@sh.itjust.works 18 points 11 hours ago

I wish it was that few, but sadly trans people can have some really atrocious politics too. I doubt they're a significant factor on this particular scenario, though.

[-] Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 hours ago

Turns out that assholes are roughly evenly distributed through the population, unfortunately.

[-] Anti_Face_Weapon@lemmy.world 21 points 12 hours ago

Doesn't really matter because the supermajority of Americans think abortion should be legal anyway. It's a small minority of the population that we have allowed to dictate domestic policy for their religious agenda.

[-] winterayars@sh.itjust.works 9 points 11 hours ago

It's not even religious. Their religion says all kinds of really important shit that they completely ignore. They just pick this one specific issue because they hate women and it's a lot easier to say "Uhhhh it's because of my religion, you're discriminating against me!" than it is to say "I hate women and want them to suffer".

[-] Anti_Face_Weapon@lemmy.world 2 points 4 hours ago

Their motivations are still religious. Scripture and belief/practice often do not coincide or outright contradict each other.

[-] AVincentInSpace@pawb.social 12 points 11 hours ago

Oh come now. They don't hate women, they just want to punish women for having sex outside of marriage because it's against...their... religion...

...hm.

[-] zarkanian@sh.itjust.works 1 points 9 hours ago

It's religious leaders saying this stuff. It isn't in scripture. Not Christian scripture, at any rate.

[-] Nuke_the_whales@lemmy.world 21 points 13 hours ago

Reminds me of how some at the GOP was making a joke that it makes no sense for women over 50 to even care about abortion rights cause it doesn't apply to them anymore.

Yet he saw no problem with him, as a man who can never carry a child, having an opinion on abortions.

[-] kd45@lemm.ee 16 points 14 hours ago

If men could get pregnant, there would be drive-through abortion clinics every 5 miles

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[-] KomfortablesKissen@discuss.tchncs.de 46 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

68% of people believe in made-up numbers. 71% even, if the numbers sound random enough.

[-] rowrowrowyourboat@sh.itjust.works 79 points 20 hours ago

Where did she get that number? Where's the source?

Majorities of both men (61%) and women (64%) express support for legal abortion.

38% of men are against abortion, and 33% of women are against.

The numbers are pretty similar.

https://www.pewresearch.org/religion/fact-sheet/public-opinion-on-abortion/

[-] Lightor@lemmy.world 9 points 14 hours ago

Ok, my first thought was "no way" but different areas of the country are different, so I was open to digging in. Looks like my gut was right, it's just more "alternative facts."

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[-] idefix@sh.itjust.works 19 points 19 hours ago

Thanks, the story she was telling was counter-intuitive and without source. Hence, doubt!

[-] taladar@sh.itjust.works 19 points 19 hours ago

Those are different numbers, percentage of men who are against abortion and percentage of people against abortion who are men are not the same.

[-] rowrowrowyourboat@sh.itjust.works 50 points 19 hours ago

Doesn't matter. If you take those numbers, let's say 4 out of 10 men are against abortion, so you put them in a pile.

Then you take 3 out of 10 women against abortion and you put them in the same pile.

So now you have a pile with 4 men and 3 women who are against abortion. Which would mean 4/7 people who are against abortion are men. Which is 57%. Not 79% at all.

Either way. What's the source. Should always source your statistics.

[-] taladar@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 hours ago

Your point is probably still generally correct because the percentage of men and women in the population is close to 50% each but in general the argument doesn't work unless you have equal numbers of both in the population.

[-] TheRealKuni@lemmy.world 25 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago)

82% of statistics are made up on the spot. Everyone knows that.

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[-] BeigeAgenda@lemmy.ca 57 points 20 hours ago

Before Roe v. Wade were overturned I was critical about abortion, then we started hearing about all the trouble women go through and it shows how essential abortion is for reducing birth complications, even if it sounds illogical.

My main issue were when abortion was used as contraceptive, because at the time of abortion the body is increasing hormone production and then it's tough on the woman emotionally when the fetus is removed, but then I learn that in those states sex-ed is very limited and contraceptives can be hard to get hold of. And without sex-ed and contraceptives abortion is the only option left.

In light of all that I now know why we need abortion and feel like a fool for opposing it.

[-] trashgirlfriend@lemmy.world 67 points 20 hours ago

because at the time of abortion the body is increasing hormone production and then it's tough on the woman emotionally when the fetus is removed

I applaud you changing your mind in face of new information, I just kind of want to nitpick that being forced to carry a pregnancy that you don't want to term is also going to be extremely physically and emotionally tough.

[-] kirbowo808@kbin.melroy.org 17 points 18 hours ago

As a relative to a parent, who’s grandparents didn’t even want them but had to give birth to my parents, due to society stigma at the time, it honestly genuinely not worth it, esp with the amount of trauma my parent (dad) had to endure, due to not being loved and cared for, which has lead to further trauma extended to me too, due to unresolved pain. Abortion is a necessity. It saves lives alongside, helping people not suffer from further trauma and pain for the future for themselves and kids as well.

[-] sinadia@lemmy.world 32 points 20 hours ago

I’m curious, is there ANY evidence of ‘abortion as contraceptive’ happening?

[-] TheRealKuni@lemmy.world 17 points 19 hours ago

Well, sort of. In that in states that teach abstinence-only sexual education, there is a higher rate of teen pregnancy. I’m guessing you could extrapolate from that and find that teen abortion rates are higher, but I don’t have that data.

As I like to say to “pro-life” people: “Want to reduce abortion? Make contraception free and teach comprehensive sexual education.”

[-] CosmicTurtle0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 18 hours ago

That's the thing though. They aren't pro life. They are anti sex that they don't approve of.

Pregnancy is punishment for you having sex outside of marriage.

Which....tells you exactly what they think of women.

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[-] taladar@sh.itjust.works 20 points 20 hours ago

I suspect it is one of those things that conservatives imagine being all over the place because in their communities where they would be shamed for becoming pregnant while unmarried and where contraceptives are hard to get that is how they imagine they would handle it.

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[-] Riven@lemmy.dbzer0.com 13 points 17 hours ago

I also applause your willingness to change your mind based on new facts learned and please don't take this as an attack because it isn't, it's just a curiosity of mine. Did body autonomy not factor into your previous stance? I'm sure we both agree woman are perfectly capable of making their own decisions with their own body, why does anyone need to be involved in what they choose to do.

Tangentially related but I saw a state in the US basically made it so rapists could choose the mother of their children by both having abortion be illegal and making it so rapists could share parental rights with their victim. Essentially forcing the mother to be involved with their abuser. Shits crazy yo.

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[-] sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 2 points 11 hours ago

Yup, and I'm still critical of abortion, but because of similar stuff to what you said, my official position is essentially pro-abortion, with some caveats to discourage things I find truly awful (e.g. no abortion after learning the gender unless it's for a medical emergency).

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[-] sverit@lemmy.ml 11 points 15 hours ago

But statistically 50% of the aborted fetuses will be male! Checkmate!

[-] LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com 93 points 22 hours ago

Honestly it's absolutely shocking that there are anti-abortion women at all tbh but it's also in the same country where half the country wants to elect an inept treasonous convict

[-] flames5123@lemmy.world 2 points 8 hours ago

It is perfectly fine being anti-abortion for personal beliefs, but to be anti-choice for others is shocking.

[-] taladar@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 hours ago

Even as a personal belief it can be problematic when it causes harm to children you have while your own life circumstances don't really make that a good idea (e.g. being gravely ill and dying soon after the birth, leaving the child a predictable orphan; having genetic diseases that will kill any children you have after significant suffering with no chance of a cure;...). There are always at least two people to consider in any decision not to abort, even if one is only a future potential person (but unlike the decision to abort, where that person does not exist in that future, when they are born they actually can suffer).

[-] solsangraal@lemmy.zip 46 points 22 hours ago

there are a lot of women in jeebus camp who've been indoctrinated since birth to do what they're told by men. they argue that it frees them of the 'burden' of thinking for themselves and making their own decisions. because the belief that those things are too much work for a woman is part of the indoctrination

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[-] Kalysta@lemm.ee 2 points 12 hours ago

And if these women had an ectopic pregnancy they’d be the first in line to abort it while denying that right to other women.

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[-] psycho_driver@lemmy.world 3 points 12 hours ago

Yeah but from my experience at least 33% of them have helped pay for an abortion.

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