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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by Zeon@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

Hello,

I was with my brother and his group of friends, and one of his friends was talking about various drugs. My brother told him, "Shut up, you're going to put us on a watchlist," and he said it in a serious tone. It felt pretty dystopian when he said that; honestly, it was a bit eerie, mostly because he's being controlled and self-censoring without anyone there, and he seems to be aware of the freedom he's giving up, yet he continues to act this way. I've talked to my brother about privacy and why it's important many times, but he would rather live this type of controlled life and doesn't care because "they already know everything about me anyway." He's in his early 20s.

Has anyone else had moments like this?

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[-] stinky@redlemmy.com 1 points 1 year ago

People are surrendering privacy rights every day: alexa, the battle for the internet, accepting NSA surveillance, etc. It's awful

[-] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

My eighty year-old parents have borrowed my car since April so they can drive for DoorDash, knowing full well if they can't work this country will do nothing to help them and they'll end up homeless.

Yay capitalism.

[-] slazer2au@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

The goal is not to avoid the watch lists. The goal is to be on so many that they become useless.

[-] Nasan@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 year ago

Shout out to all the homies on the "eats ice cream with a fork" list.

[-] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 1 year ago

I started thinking my internet comms would get me on a list during W’s term. My political leanings have only traveled Left since then. I’m not going to be on one of the first lists: that honor goes to Trans people, then some others, but I’ll be on one of the “when we get around to it” lists.

But the level of self-censorship and the degree of paranoia (nobody cares about drugs unless you’ve got them or you’re talking about distribution) is concerning. Maybe try to find out why he cares that much. I agree with a sibling comment about possible mental health issues to assess. I was early twenties when my bipolar was diagnosed.

[-] FeloniousPunk@lemmy.today 1 points 1 year ago

It’s funny you mention that. I had a blog during the W years and often posted questionable content about the administration. One day while reviewing logs, I noticed a LOT of traffic that resolved to Arlington VA. I toned it down after that, as I wasn’t keen on spooks crawling up my ass.

Self censorship is a topic that turns cold when you realize you’re making yourself a very real target.

[-] mosiacmango@lemm.ee 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Irrational paranoid urges might be signs of mental health issues. Does your family have any history of paranoid schizophrenia? Onset tends to happen to men in their late 20s/early 30s, but everyone is different.

[-] humanspiral@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

Yeah, nobody's out to get us. Surely we all want to make America great again, so nothing to worry about.

[-] Scubus@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago

Not sure what the irrational or paranoid bit of this is about

[-] Carrolade@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago

Assuming this is the US, I doubt it's that easy to land on any sort of watchlist. Unfortunately, paranoia doesn't require any actual hard evidence.

[-] That_Devil_Girl@lemmy.ml 0 points 1 year ago

I have a coworker at a large shipyard who's an insane MAGA moron. He believes all women will soon be fired, and all non-white people are going to be deported.

He's writing down people's personal information, license plates, and such. He's not even trying to be stealthy about it.

[-] weeeeum@lemmy.world -1 points 1 year ago

When packaging on food specifies that it has REAL ingredients , like REAL CHEESE and REAL HONEY.

We've gotten so good at producing fake, artificial flavors that we need to specify when our food is real.

Also new facial scanners at airports

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