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I think I’ve settled on the latter. Disagreement is maybe best communicated by the absence of an upvote? And downvotes work best when they signal something that is just off base, and while not reportable, is not appreciated at a broad cultural level.

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[-] sunaurus@lemm.ee 117 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I think voting based on quality of content (and NOT whether you agree with it) is the best approach for healthy discussions. If somebody is a low effort troll, then for sure downvote (and maybe even consider reporting).

OTOH, if somebody makes a well written and thoughtful post about why Totoro is the best Ghibli movie ever, and meanwhile you think Totoro is not even in their top 3, then I would still recommend NOT downvoting 😃

[-] maegul@lemmy.ml 47 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Yes. This.

Upvoting things you disagree with but are well put and compelling is the litmus test in a way.

Vote for quality = a better platform

Vote for personal appreciation = a toxic platform ?

[-] socsa@lemmy.ml 25 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

The problem is that there's no way to enforce this in practice. All of these conversations about voting culture, with examples and pontificating always just come off as "everyone who drives slower than me is a grandpa, everyone who drives faster than me is a lunatic."

Downvotes will always be an "I disagree" button no matter what anyone wants or thinks.

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[-] smashboy@kbin.social 14 points 1 year ago

I’ve upvoted comments that I disagreed with, but were well written an contributed to a good discussion. I only downvote for very low quality, spam or hateful comments.

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[-] bionicjoey@lemmy.ca 59 points 1 year ago

For me, downvote typically means either "this adds nothing to the discussion" or "this was made in bad faith"

[-] Corkyskog@sh.itjust.works 12 points 1 year ago

Yes. I upvote stuff I disagree with constantly. That's because I view the purpose to promote content that furthers discussion.

[-] kromem@lemmy.world 50 points 1 year ago

Downvote = "I think this should be less visible than it is."

Generally for disagreeing with something that's pretty petty.

But if it's verifiably misinformation, downvotes are more than warranted.

[-] uniqueid198x@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 1 year ago

Agreed. The function of the down vote is to deprioritize that post/comment. People should use the down vote when they want to deprioritize that post/comment.

[-] Fisk400@lemmy.world 40 points 1 year ago

Its both. It will never, not be both. This idea that there should be some rule that we have to up vote things that we disagree with because it's well written is cope from people that needs to go outside.

Comments get downvoted because it failed to convince people to agree with the comment and that makes it a bad comment.

[-] imaqtpie@sh.itjust.works 15 points 1 year ago

But as an intelligent person, you can also discriminate between something that doesn't convince you personally, and something that is completely without value or irrelevant.

When you refrain from downvoting in the former instance, you contribute to a more healthy discussion. Not every person that I disagree with is a bad person; similarly, not every comment that I disagree with is a bad comment.

[-] grabyourmotherskeys@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

Yes, it really bugs me when I get downvotes but not one single comment articulating what they are not liking or what they disagree with. I could not care less about the score, I'm here for discussion and also debate. I often find when I ask "why the downvotes" it's because people misinterpreted what I wrote (my fault, I need to be clear) or I used info they didn't have (something I know because of an area of interest that I think it's common knowledge in that group). Both can "fixed" by discussion.

[-] ryathal@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 year ago

You're taking things way to personally on the internet if you worry about down votes. It's not people's job to explain everything to you. Sometimes it happens and sometimes it doesn't, learn to move on from downvotes.

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[-] maegul@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 year ago

I don’t disagree.

But

and that makes it a bad comment.

Goes too far. That a social media comment is the limit of what is possible as far as persuasion and learning goes, especially on difficult or controversial topics, is plainly wrong. Mind shifts can be hard work. And so there’s plenty of space in which a comment can be making a worthwhile point, politely and clearly, without it ever being able to be persuasive, just by the nature of the audience and topic.

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[-] SomeNerd@reddthat.com 34 points 1 year ago

=This is Bad content, which i want to see less of

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[-] fratermus@lemmy.sdf.org 30 points 1 year ago

Downvotes = “I disagree” or “this is bad and you should feel bad”?

I withhold downvotes until it means "this is disinformation, or misinformation so wrong-headed it could mislead those new to the topic"

[-] tias@discuss.tchncs.de 6 points 1 year ago

Same, and also "this has already been said in this thread. You should have upvoted the existing comment." Basically a tool to improve signal-to-noise ratio of the discussion.

[-] Smiling_Tut@lemmy.sdf.org 29 points 1 year ago

Downvote = other people probably should ignore this post. It isn't likely to do any good for them. Upvote = hey, everybody! Look at this!

[-] McJonalds@lemmy.world 27 points 1 year ago

i will downvote anythong that is false, misleading, doesn't contribute to the conversation or classic reddit humor adding to the same joke

[-] cupcakezealot@lemmy.blahaj.zone 27 points 1 year ago

Neither; downvotes = this doesn't contribute to the topic and/or doesn't contribute anything relevant to the conversation.

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[-] cashews_best_nut@lemmy.world 25 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I stick to the original "Reddiquette" which I wish more people stuck to or even fucking READ for a start.

Downvotes were meant for off-topic and spam nonsense. They were NEVER meant for disagreement. If you disagreed with someone you were encouraged to comment in response. It fostered a much better and interesting community with people of differeing views not afraid to voice their dissent.

You would literally get right and left-wingers having heated but civil debates with each other and neither would be getting heavily downvoted. Can you imagine that happening on Reddit nowadays?

When Diggers and the general populace jumped on Reddit downvotes just turned into a spiteful and underhanded way of saying "Fuck your opinion and I don't feel like justifying it".

This resulted in echo chambers where people were too afraid to voice their true opinions cos they'd get downvoted and at worst banned from the subreddit by over-zealous mods who'd forgotten what downvotes were for.

I have a personal theory that this accelerated the polarisation of politics across the English-speaking world. Maybe if Republicans* didn't get so heavily downvoted they wouldn't have turned to places like The_Donald and 8chan to vent in like-minded echo chambers. They could discuss things without getting villified and have their views challenged in a civil manner.

*NB. Shouldn't matter but to be clear I'm a left wing Brit. I'm just using Donald Trump/Democrats as a will known divisive issue.

I LOVE Lemmy because it has the oldschool Reddit vibe where people will disagree and neither person is downvoting the other. They just have civil discussion. Much better!!

Personally I NEVER downvote unless it's utterly meaningless, pointless or just downright spam. I recently added one more trigger for me to downvote though: Low effort bullshit like "This" or puns that add ntohing to the conversation except to garner upvotes for their 'comedic' value.

[-] crystal@feddit.de 6 points 1 year ago

There's difference in disagreeing in opionion and thinking someone is just wrong. In the latter case, I find it reasonable to suppress their comment using downvotes.

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[-] anteaters@feddit.de 20 points 1 year ago

Originally up- and down votes were intended to crowd source filtering and rating content in a community. So voting up for things you want to see more of and vote down spam or content that is unfit for the community. But people will tend to upvote things they agree with and downvote those they deem wrong - I also find myself doing something like that. I now try to follow these rules:

  • Upvote things I like (or agree with)
  • Don't vote on things I don't agree with or think are dumb
  • Downvote things that I feel really don't belong here.

It helps that lemmy currently shows the number of up and down votes instead of just the score, it gives a bit more inhibition before downvoting stuff.

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[-] Steve@compuverse.uk 19 points 1 year ago

On Reddit I only ever down voted things that were actually bad advice. Things people shouldn't do.

[-] lugal@lemmy.one 17 points 1 year ago

Disagreement is maybe best communicated by the absence of an upvote?

There is a quote "You can not not communicate" but on the internet you can. If I get no upvotes, I don't know if no one has seen it or people actively ignored it and it's a bad advice to feel disagreed on when no upvotes.

I personally feel frustrated when I get downvotes but no comments because I don't know why I'm downvoted. Some instances here in the lemmyverse (like mine) don't have downvotes enabled so I don't even see downvotes.

I think it's best to engage in a conversation if you disagree in a constructive way and downvote without comment if you feel this is beyond help.

[-] intensely_human@lemm.ee 16 points 1 year ago

Downvote = “I think this should be a little lower in the sort priority”

It’s the opposite of an upvote.

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[-] Socialphilosopher@lemm.ee 16 points 1 year ago

If I want an article to be read by others, I give an upvote. I'll downvote if I don't want it. It has nothing to do with my side of the idea or the event. For example, a rape news was shared. My upvoting does not mean that I support the incident, it just means that it will come to the fore so others can see it.

[-] effingjoe@kbin.social 10 points 1 year ago

Upvotes mean "people should see this". Downvotes mean "there is no reason for anyone to see this".

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[-] Fizz@lemmy.nz 15 points 1 year ago

Don't feel bad. I down vote things I don't want to see. Others much want to see that but I am putting my 2cents in.

This isn't reddit getting downvoted won't mean you can only post every 10mins. You can post as much as you want

[-] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 14 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Up = I like this

Down = I hate this

If you have more ups than downs: The viewers commonly liked it.

If you have more downs than ups: The viewers commonly hated it.

It's simple and it's how it's always worked, and likely will continue to work, regardless of any deeper sentiments some people may have about it.

I wish there was a new button that simply meant "I have no opinion on this one way or another." But I guess that's simply non-engagement.

[-] DubiousInterests@lemmy.fmhy.ml 10 points 1 year ago

I use it as:

up = this should be here

Down = this should not be here

Course I have my own biases but. I don't want to see people get downvoted for saying things I don't like just because I don't like it. Also anyone who downvotes honest questions is just being mean.

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[-] CaptainHowdy@lemm.ee 14 points 1 year ago

A downvote for me is: this is content i don't want in my feed

[-] indite@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 1 year ago

100% you should feel bad. I hope everyone i downvote cries themselves to sleep

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[-] pazukaza@lemmy.ml 10 points 1 year ago

Are upvotes for agreement ok though? Or should upvotes be reserved for quality content?

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[-] hoodlem@hoodlem.me 10 points 1 year ago

The thing is, downvotes mean whatever the person downvoting feels like they mean. Personally I don’t downvote anything, only upvote.

It would be interesting to have a bot that looks for bad actors—by that I mean users who abuse the downvote and do not use it the way the community agrees that it means. And have a mod review and take action if necessary.

[-] hardypart@feddit.de 9 points 1 year ago

I think wrong information and rudeness should get downvoted, nothing more.

[-] d00phy@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 year ago

I enjoy reading thoughtful content that I disagree with. I downvote based on perceived intent of the comment or post. If it’s just mean, hateful, trolling, wildly off-topic, or anything like that it will get a downvote.

[-] RotatingParts@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 year ago

Let say there is a news story of a horrible event. I will up vote it so people see it and read it to learn. I am not up voting it because I am promoting the horrible event.

[-] addie@feddit.uk 8 points 1 year ago

Depends on what kind of post it is.

General discussion threads, sure - 'up' = 'good content', 'down' = 'irrelevant'. Irrelevant could be because it's not to do with the matter at hand, it could be hateful, trollish, whatever.

Post asking for a specific fact, like in ye olde askahistorian? Up = correct, down = incorrect. Doesn't matter how well written or how good the intent is, downvoting for disinformation.

One of the things that Slashdot got right was being able to upvote / downvote with a reason. (Perhaps only being able to upvote / downvote occasionally too, which stops brigading.) Made it possible to filter on why things were good, save ruining your fake internet points when you were mistaken about something as opposed to being an arsehole.

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[-] jcg@halubilo.social 6 points 1 year ago

Somewhat vague but I think of it as "this doesn't belong here." It seems to be the most fitting - something could not belong because it's irrelevant, or because it's rude, or because nobody wants to see it. All up to interpretation, I suppose, but better that than a hard rule than I either don't feel good about sometimes or that prevents me from downvoting things that probably should be downvoted but don't explicitly break that rule.

[-] Nachorella@lemmy.sdf.org 5 points 1 year ago

Everyone will come up with their own metric and the results will be an average of both and other things.

[-] maegul@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 year ago

I think we have some scope to try to establish and monitor cultural norms.

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[-] doppelgangmember@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Sad part of the design is that I need to interact with a post to get it off my feed so if it's an some stupid meme or whatever i just downvote and move on to clear up all the repeats.

The setting is off by default but you turn on hide post after interaction in the settings.

[-] oxjox@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago

On Reddit, up/down was intended to be used as relevant or not relevant. Then Facebook came around with the Like button and changed the standard.

Coming from the perspective of Digg, Reddit was about sharing external content and giving something an upvote was used to promote that content while a downvote was used to discourage that content from being seen. It was democratic in that the users were relied on for ranking posts without the need for moderators having to establish rules and remove things.

Then Reddit employed an algorithm and most people visit Popular and All making it a shitstorm of irrelevance. People upvote stuff they like that has absolutely no reason to be posted in a sub. Never mind everything that's gone on with Reddit in recent months, it's users' inability to properly use the upvote / downvote buttons that has caused the site to become absolute trash.

Here, we have the added tool of the Star to indicate that we like something while at the same time downvoting it because it's not relevant to the sub. The problem is that the vast majority of people don't want to think about or put any effort into anything. At this point, anything that looks like a thumbs up is getting selected because they like it.

If you disagree with someone, you shouldn't do anything unless you have something to say. Engage with them in conversation and express your point of view - this is "social media". If others feel your point is relevant you should get an upvote; if you're off topic you should get a downvote.

Reading over the other comments here, I think most people are expressing a similar perspective. It's about rankings, not feelings.

[-] Double_A@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 1 year ago

Depends on what kind of "I don't agree". If somebody asks for people's favorite food, I'm not going to dislike all other answers... But if it's a more serious question, and an answer just has a really bad take that I don't agree with, that's getting a dislike.

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