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[-] thezeesystem@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 3 weeks ago

Don't forget the millions of us chained to the bottom because we have no choice

[-] HawlSera@lemm.ee 6 points 3 weeks ago

Oh hello my friend, you fully drowned yet? I'm getting there.

[-] thezeesystem@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 weeks ago

Having no choice people think we can just jump ship (or I guess the pot) when they don't realize the people who can't do it at all because there chained to it

For instance trans people can't get passports or renew them meaning they have absolutely no way to leave.

We need to stay and help the disenfranchised instead of jumping ship

[-] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 weeks ago

How so?
Geniunely don't understand how being trans prevents you from getting out?
I'd assume when being asked about your sex, I'd just swallow the pride (no pun intended) and say what the sex at birth was to get the paperwork done. As soon as ones out it won't matter as much anyway.

[-] erin@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 weeks ago

This is not the case. Trans people are being denied passports of either gender marker as officials "wait for clarification" on the new rules. Furthermore, passports are being confiscated.

[-] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 weeks ago

Big oof then. Good luck for the folks that need it to escape.

[-] spooky2092@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 weeks ago
[-] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 weeks ago

But even in your source, which does explain the circumstances (which are bad), they mention how it needs to be under the sex that is on your certificate.
I only see an issue with it if you are in-between getting the identification modified as the gears of beaucrarcy grind very slow (ignoring constant interruptions by unecessary policy changes)

[-] spooky2092@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I only see an issue with it if you are in-between getting the identification modified as the gears of beaucrarcy grind very slow

Or, you know, you live in a red state that fights tooth and nail to not update that information, all in the hopes that this day would eventually come.

Updating your vital records is a state level item, and the process will vary by state, and that's a requirement to get it changed on your Federal passport. Please don't forget that a large amount of states have been trying to pretend these people don't exist, and now the federal government is trying to help make that a reality. For an example of the difficulties as reported 3 years ago:


States requiring proof of surgery, court order or altered birth certificate to change gender marker on driver’s licenses

Georgia.
Guam (U.S. Territory).
Iowa.
Kentucky.
Louisiana.
Northern Mariana Islands (U.S. Territory).
South Carolina.
Tennessee.
Texas.

States requiring proof of surgery, court order or altered birth certificate to change gender marker on birth certificates

Alabama.
Arizona.
Arkansas.
Georgia.
Guam (U.S. Territory).
Iowa.
Kentucky.
Louisiana.
Missouri.
Nebraska.
New Hampshire.
North Carolina.
North Dakota.
Wisconsin.

States barring residents from amending their gender designation on official documents

Montana.
Oklahoma.
Tennessee.
West Virginia


I'll note again that this was 3 years ago, before the massive wave of anti-trans legislation in the last couple of years.

For instance trans people can’t get passports or renew them meaning they have absolutely no way to leave.

given long enough you can just cross the border and claim asylum

[-] dx1@lemmy.world 12 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

This isn't the first empire. Masses can be brainwashed. You can even have multiple layers of brainwashing, like how Republicans are extremely brainwashed, and Democrats are secondarily brainwashed to think they're the moral opposition, while both of them unquestioningly support the undercurrent of global imperialism.

Literally the only escape is the entire population being fully educated on the nature of politics, economics, societies, history. A people cannot realize a free and just society without completely understanding what that requires. Until then you're all just a fish flopping around on the floor of a boat.

[-] JeremyHuntQW12@lemmy.world 10 points 3 weeks ago

They jumped into the pot.

[-] inv3r5ion@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 3 weeks ago

Called my mom last night, told her to renew her passport asap.

Most people are like “the waters warm, this is nice, what are you going on about???” And I’m like “hi yes this water is scalding hot and about to boil we need to get out!”

[-] Today@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

Renewed mine online in October. Received in 12 days.

[-] inv3r5ion@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 3 weeks ago

That was under the previous administration… musk is hollowing out federal jobs so I bet the wait will be tough. Especially as more frogs realize that the pot is boiling…

[-] puppy@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

Longer wait times? B...b...b...but he's the head of the department of government efficiency, who could've seen this coming!?

[-] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 3 weeks ago

Its such a shit situation. If you want out, you generally need to get a job in another country. A job in a different country generally pays significantly less than the cost of living in most of the USA, so you need to already have a significant amount of money already saved to even consider it an option.

Most of us are just fucking trapped.

[-] butwhyishischinabook@lemmy.world 5 points 3 weeks ago

And in the case of the EU you probably aren't getting in unless you're highly credentialed. For all their shit talking they sure hate large-scale immigration.

[-] TheBrideWoreCrimson@sopuli.xyz 3 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Maybe I'm missing the point, but COL in other countries is also only a fraction of the US's. We don't live in hunger and squalor over here, you know. Plus, to move, you won't need significant savings.
No, the real issue, as with all migration from high- to low-wage countries, is that you cannot easily return for retirement because you're not going to be able to save enough for the US's housings prices or rents.

[-] KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

the biggest things in the way here are going to be citizenship, the US has really lax citizenship most of the time, compared to a lot of other countries especially.

And your job, assuming you don't work in a large national business, or from home, in a way that they're willing to accommodate.

[-] Ensign_Crab@lemmy.world 7 points 2 weeks ago
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[-] untorquer@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago

Hahaha...

No just the ones who jumped out had means. The pot has a lid.

[-] usrtrv@sh.itjust.works 4 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

As an American who just emigrated, I guess I jumped. I can still vote from overseas, but I'm pessimistic about the future.

[-] Bonje@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

Where to, if you don't mind

[-] usrtrv@sh.itjust.works 4 points 3 weeks ago

Japan. I had an offer from an EU country that logically would have been a better choice. But I couldn't resist my inner child/weeb.

[-] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Do they ever harass you for leaving the designated tourist areas?

Not bait I'm legitimately curious.

[-] usrtrv@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

No, I've never experienced anything like that. Even in small towns. I'm sure it happens, but I don't think it's common as long as you're respectful.

The worse thing I've personally seen were no foreigner signs on bars during new years eve.

[-] Badland9085@lemm.ee 2 points 2 weeks ago

I’ve read (in Japanese, written by Japanese people) that those places will actually welcome you in if speak Japanese and is respectful of the place and other patrons, the latter 2 conditions just like any respectable human should. It could be that they’ve put those up due to xenophobia, but there are also those that just don’t want to deal with people who don’t respect their culture.

[-] usrtrv@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago

Yea these were in a heavily touristy spots. So I don't blame them.

[-] Badland9085@lemm.ee 3 points 2 weeks ago

I don’t think I’ve known of a “designated tourist area” in Japan. I lived there for a month in some town that I doubt there’d be any foreign tourist and nobody harassed me and my friends. We were even helped by the locals and police when one of my friends lost their wallet, and they were super patient about it too.

[-] HubertManne@moist.catsweat.com 4 points 3 weeks ago

ok. ok. ok. this is a bit of a stretch. I mean its really not all that slow.

[-] latenightnoir@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago

This would imply that they're not surrounded by other pots filled with water which is (varying degrees of) boiling. We don't really have a Socialist Utopia meeting spot, let's say.

Beyond that, eloping requires a not insignificant amount of money (as a Romanian, I can say that homes/apartments aren't cheap here, either, and we're not exactly L.A.)

And at the other end of the line, immigration's not exactly thought of with fondness, even in Europe. Don't forget, we're stewing in our own pot even if the heat's still relatively tolerable.

[-] Goodmorningsunshine@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

This is a problem I'm having now with my boyfriend. I want to get out of the US and he says, "Where? Everywhere's falling to fascism right now. And it's hard and expensive to emigrate." It doesn't help that he also thinks it's not worth it to think about leaving until the water's actually boiling and he has verified it.

[-] djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 weeks ago

Your boyfriend is right. Unless one of you has an in-demand technical degree or a lot of money, immigration to Western countries is going to be out of reach. That leaves you with weakened economies which are either already authoritarian, or trending authoritarian. Even if you could get to a place like Europe, far-right parties emboldened by their new U.S. support are rising in popularity and receiving centrist support in places like France and Germany.

There is no green field to relax in while the rest of the world collapses. You'll have to fight to prevent the slide to fascism wherever you go.

[-] Goodmorningsunshine@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

True - it's the rising tide right now and probably for humanity's future since we're on a sinking ship globally. I do have the benefit of working for a global company and a boss who's already told me I can transfer to whichever country I pick that they operate in. But he's not as optimistic for his own job needs, and it's still about choosing a country that could possibly just let us die in peace before it also goes to shit.

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[-] slazer2au@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

Yea.....

Post UK Brexit was when I thought the same thing.

Tell that to my cat who keep trying to go outside when its freezing and its winter. Wtf

[-] 11111one11111@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

Well, duh. A slowly boiling pot of water is just a fucking hot tub for 90% of the time you're in it.

[-] apfelwoiSchoppen@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago

Billionaires are keeping us in the pot, using levers of power that we don't access from the pot.

[-] tryptamine@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Inside the pot: slowly boiling water

Outside the pot: raging inferno that is heating the pot

When given the option to slowly boil, or jump into a raging inferno, I think most people would think twice about jumping out of the pot.

[-] Shezzagrad@lemmy.ml 1 points 3 weeks ago

Pot boiling and the raging inferno are both in America. Go and explore, the world is more peaceful then you think

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[-] grysbok@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 3 weeks ago

I'm trying! I'm working towards proving I'm Polish-by-descent, then I'll be able to hold an EU passport. It's slow going.

And in the mean time, I'm in a trans-friendly state, can pass as cis and hetero, and I'm white. I have a go bag and a US passport that matches my birth gender. My next steps are improving my food stores to protect against tariff impacts.

The only things that tie me to this country are my friends (who are also looking into exit plans and whom I talk to online more than in person) and my dog (I imagine moving to a new country with a dog is even harder than finding an apartment with a dog). Oh, and I really love my job and my coworkers, but my job might go away with all of the societal upset.

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yeah pretty much.

They say education is the most important thing.

I'm inclined to agree, but we might honestly be past democracy in a post truth world, i'm not sure we deserve the rights we have.

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