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It's Friday so let's all daydream... which would you rather do and why?

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[-] Hossenfeffer@feddit.uk 12 points 1 day ago

Hike in the morning, chill and swim in the afternoon.

When do we leave?

[-] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 3 points 1 day ago

This made me smile 😊

[-] nevermind@lemm.ee 6 points 1 day ago
[-] Hamartiogonic@sopuli.xyz 13 points 2 days ago

Forests are much more fun IMO. There’s always so much to see and experience. Bring binoculars with you, and you can try identifying birds. If you’re into botany, there’s no shortage of plants to explore. If chilling is your thing, find the nearest fireplace. If there’s a lake or a pond, you could combine that with swimming too. Bring a fishing rod, and you’ll have a chance to get some food.

[-] Mac@mander.xyz 12 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Forest hike.

I'm not super into chilling in that way and the sun hates me. I enjoy hiking much more.
Of course, there are variables that affect the decision here but in general: forest hike.

Edit: bunch of hiking buds in here! Love it.

[-] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 2 points 2 days ago

Yep I'm lying on the beach alone! Which is super chill and fine with me

[-] ExtraMedicated@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

I'm lazy and tend to sit around a lot. That said, I'd still take woods over beach any day. I got my camera and telephoto lens for wildlife photos, walking in the shade at a comfortable pace... That's a good way to spend a couple hours.

[-] Opinionhaver@feddit.uk 7 points 2 days ago

Hike for sure. Only thing a beach has going for it are the girls in bikinis.

[-] Doctor_Satan@lemm.ee 2 points 1 day ago

There is no law that says women can't wear bikinis in the forest.

[-] stelelor@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 day ago

But there are mosquitoes...

[-] Doctor_Satan@lemm.ee 3 points 1 day ago

Florida beaches have mosquitos too. And sand fleas. It doesn't seem to stop women from wearing bikinis.

[-] Peasley@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago

I'd prefer the forest. I love learning about local flora, and take tons of plant photos on my hikes. At least in my area, beaches are dominated by 1-3 invasive species, while forests mostly have intact native species diversity.

I'm sure if i were into birds i'd have a different answer.

[-] Catoblepas@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 days ago

I’m into birds, and I prefer the forest too! Warblers don’t hang out at the beach, and down the path of seagull identification lies terror…

[-] Peasley@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

I agree about the seagulls! They all look the same to me but there are apparently 2-4 species in my area depending on the season

[-] Coelacanth@feddit.nu 5 points 1 day ago

I need more details! Is it a sandy beach or cliffs? Is it secluded or populated? Is it tropical or temperate?

[-] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 5 points 1 day ago

Good question! It's sandy, populated and lovely warm without blazing heat

[-] Coelacanth@feddit.nu 3 points 1 day ago

In that case I'd rather not! 😅

I don't really like people looking at me, and I don't like the noise and clamor of families with children. I guess I'm a bit of a miserable misanthrope at my core. Those crowded typical beaches have never really appealed to me. Give me some secluded cliffs by a forest lake though and we can have a conversation.

[-] 0ops@lemm.ee 3 points 1 day ago
[-] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago

There was a time I wouldn't have been able to choose. Truth be told, the only reason I can choose is that I can't hike any more, so that's what I really want back.

But, ngl, at my age, I think I'd end up choosing the beach more often than hiking if the ability came back.

[-] CouncilOfFriends@slrpnk.net 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

From the comments and my experience being among vegetation versus getting sand everywhere, it's clear that we all came from the trees. To fully self-actualize we must all return to monke.

[-] Skua@kbin.earth 4 points 2 days ago

There's a forest with a beach near me, I don't need to choose!

I prefer the forest, although I think that it's at least partly down to me preferring hiking. There are some beaches not too far from me with interesting caves and rock formations, and I like visiting them

[-] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 3 points 2 days ago

You're living the dream! What do you like about the formations?

[-] Skua@kbin.earth 3 points 2 days ago

They're just aesthetically pleasing to me, I suppose. I like a bit of naturally dramatic scenery. There are some interesting stories attached to couple of them too, like caves that were used as hideouts for smugglers. Some are stable and climbable enough that you can use them to get a good viewpoint over the others

[-] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 3 points 2 days ago

That sounds really cool! I'm glad you have that near you

[-] Wahots@pawb.social 5 points 2 days ago

Depends on the temperature! Right now, hiking sounds preferable since it's about 10c here during the day. On a hot day, the beach sounds nice :)

[-] lvxferre@mander.xyz 4 points 2 days ago

Forest for sure. I can't exactly say that I'm big fan of sand, salt, and sun, plus I love the local woods.

[-] Libb@jlai.lu 4 points 2 days ago

Forest. Any day, any time.

[-] Bo7a@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I'll bump the curve a bit.

I choose beach. But mainly because I live in a forest.

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Is it mosquito season?

[-] tauren@lemm.ee 2 points 1 day ago

I'd go to the forest if the law prohibited the bears from eating me.

[-] C45513@lemm.ee 3 points 1 day ago

Good answer. Not enough people know how strictly law-abiding most bears are.

Hike through a forest to reach the beach for chilling.

Fuck I miss Vancouver Island...

[-] stelelor@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 day ago

Beach for me! For one, I live in a semi-rural forested area. For two, as a kid we went to the beach every summer for a couple weeks at a time and it was THE BEST. Dozing off under the parasol with my toes in warm sand, feeling the rumble of the waves nearby, hearing the muffled sounds of children playing, smelling sunscreen and seaweed and corn on the cob...

[-] coaxil@lemm.ee 3 points 2 days ago

Are either required activities????

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[-] GreyShuck@feddit.uk 3 points 2 days ago

Beach with other people? Nope. No interest at all.

Deserted beach, where you can roam, explore cliffs and rockpools and so on? Well, they have an atmosphere, so maybe sometime.

Forest? Yes, definitely. Hiking will take you away from anyone else, and there will be plenty of opportunities for wildlife spotting one way or another.

[-] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 days ago

Honestly, either. Better photography opportunities in a forest (more birds), but a beach let's me bring out the drone and soak up some heat

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[-] Kolanaki@pawb.social 2 points 2 days ago

I live in California. I could start in the forest and ski down to the beach. 😎

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[-] higgsboson@dubvee.org 1 points 1 day ago

I can walk out any door and be in the forest, so overall I'd say forest....but if you're teleporting me there and back for thr day, I'd pick a bit of beach.

[-] Doctor_Satan@lemm.ee 1 points 1 day ago

I lived in Florida for 20+ years. The beach is wildly overrated. Unless you surf or dive (and FL sucks for surfing), there's literally nothing to do except walk and sit on sand. Though I will say this: if you're allowed to have a bonfire on the beach at night, it becomes infinitely more fun. But that's pretty much banned in FL.

So yeah, I will opt for the forest almost every time.

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