No one I've ever met claims it's a utopia. Unlike Americans brainwashed from birth we don't believe our country is perfect, nor do we believe that other countries have no value. We don't believe our country is perfect and entitled to greatness.
Consider that you believe that we think this way, precisely because you can't imagine it differently.
Alberta separatists never shut up about running a pipeline through Washington to the west coast.
If the West Coast went to Canada after Alberta separated, that would be the ultimate poetic justice. Alberta would be back negotiating with Canada but now as a foreign state with all the animosity of a recent separation. I'd almost like to see it if it didn't mean massive political upheaval.