[-] RedWizard@hexbear.net 5 points 10 hours ago

What is the most succinct way to dismiss russiagate nonsense when it's brought up in conversation?

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[-] RedWizard@hexbear.net 9 points 16 hours ago

This is the stuff that the average person isn't even aware of. It's a very interesting read. I wonder what a yuan driven global economy could look like. I'm sure if we looked at the belt and road we'd get some kind of idea, but it's very much only a partial image.

[-] RedWizard@hexbear.net 46 points 16 hours ago

Aw, your Dad loves you! meow-hug

[-] RedWizard@hexbear.net 1 points 16 hours ago

I did a double take while looking at those screen shots, what a unfortunate name... unless 👀

[-] RedWizard@hexbear.net 1 points 18 hours ago

All the jobs I've worked have been low-wage, where making friends with your coworkers means someone at work will have your back, at least in small ways.

Every low wage job I've worked at has been the same as well. One job I worked along side the department managers son, and we bonded over our mutual disdain for his dad haha.

What kind of job do you have? Something where people are all backstabbing career-climbers?

I've been in situations where someone who presents themselves one way at work, reveal themselves to be a totally different way out of work once they were comfortable.

I don't really want to get into a long winded story. Simple to say, in this one situation, the working and personal relationship was over, but while I might have been done with our "working relationship", our employer obviously was not. So I had to grit my teeth and "be civil" to a real chameleon of a human, knowing full well the depths of their narcissism and ignorant vulgarness.

Since their offense happened off hours and off work property, and "broke no laws", there was little my superior could or would do to address the situation. I was told he had a "conversation" with them, but little else. I thought about changing jobs, but they eventually moved on to "greener" pastures. This was many many years ago. I distanced myself from the "after hours" activities, and those eventually died off. I think my experience (which was no secret) poisoned that well.

Had this been a relationship formed outside work, I would have cut them loose and been done with it. It wasn't so simple unfortunately, thanks in part to the nature and relations of "work".

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I don't think this is a wholly abnormal thing. I also have a friends group that has lasted since my teens. Though, as they become more reactionary over the decades, we see each other less. Adolescence is probably the freest time in our lives, or at least it should be.

I think the thing about friendships after your 20s is that instead of meeting people at school, you're doing it at work. If someone turned out to be shitty in school, that was far less consequential then if someone turns out to be shitty at work.

You need to work to live, and compromising your work experience by getting too interpersonal is a real concern. In school there is a lot more comradery between students. At some level, none of you want to be at school, and none of your peers hold any authority over you. Most everyone in your town goes to your school, and you are never worried about getting expelled. There is very little risk in building social bonds in this setting comparatively.

You would think work would be the same, as you all likely do not want to be there on some level. However, you need food, and shelter, and healthcare. At jobs that hardly provide those things, I imagine its easier to make friends, since you're already getting so little to begin with, your always on the hunt for new work anyway.

As I've gained more security through my carrier I've absolutely become more likely to keep my coworkers as mostly coworkers. I've also been burned a couple of times over the years, which probably informs my position more.

As children, you have so fewer hangups and zero social awareness. As an anecdote, we went trick or treating yesterday, and at one house was a little girl and her grandma. My wife got to talking with the grandma and my kiddo and her grandkid started goofing around, playing with our youngest in his stroller. The girl was asking us questions about our costumes, and telling us about her night getting candy. By the time we left, this girl, who none of us knew 5 minutes ago, gave nearly everyone in our group a hug.

I would have to be intoxicated to be as social with strangers as this kid was. It was very cute, but I think, very telling about kids and how they form bonds. Kids are naturals at bonding. Over time that instinct gets clouded by our own lived experience. We become so bogged down by our own fears and worries that we become guarded around others. So much of our socialization is bound to our labor and how we labor. Bonding at work is warped by the social relations of wage labor. You have to be able to work with people at the end of the day. If there is conflict between you and someone else it could cost either of you your jobs. You won't move up a grade next year and you won't have a 2 month break in the summer to detox from the incompatible people you deal with on the regular. There are a lot of consequences to be had socializing at work.

We have very few consequence free places in which we can exist and be our true selves. Where we can socialize like we did when we were in grade school. Its magical watching my kids socialize. They make it look so easy. Its because for them, it really is.

[-] RedWizard@hexbear.net 15 points 1 day ago

It said "This is Trumps America".

[-] RedWizard@hexbear.net 25 points 1 day ago

Incredible, what a hero!

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It took the conservative movement 50 years to repeal Roe v Wade. The day it was decided conservative forces were already working proactively to overturn this decision. For 50 years RBG criticized the case, stating its reasoning was weak and could be subject to legal attack.

For 50 years Democrats have run on codifying Roe v Wade only to abandon the task after getting elected.

In his first run for election, Bill Clinton told women voters he would support strengthening Roe. Even though his record on the matter was less then good [NYT July 20, 1992]:

The 1989 issue, hastily compiled before a Supreme Court ruling that many believed could abolish the rights established in the 1973 Roe v. Wade decision, said Mr. Clinton "refused to state a position on abortion." Ms. Wright responded, "I don't know why they said that," saying she had sent many newspaper clippings.

The next time around, said a former Naral staff member, Lisa Swanson, Mr. Clinton's office faxed at least three different statements. In the version published in 1991, Mr. Clinton said: "I do not favor repeal of Roe v. Wade. Until the fetus can live outside the mother's womb, I believe the decision on abortion should be the woman's, not the Government's." The statement noted Mr. Clinton's past support of parental notification for minors and restrictions on state financing of abortions.

In the 1992 issue, Mr. Clinton waxed passionate. "The Government simply has no right to interfere with decisions that must be made by women of America to make the right choice," he said. He added, "Although I have supported certain limited restrictions upon Government funding for abortions, I would not veto any bill requiring Medicaid funding that passed Congress." Accepting Status Quo

Operating in a state government where money issues were far more visible than moral ones, Mr. Clinton tended to accept the status quo on abortion. Although Arkansas was one of the few states to legalize abortion before 1973, by the time Mr. Clinton took office in 1979, state policy prohibited financing of poor women's abortions, with rare exceptions.

Governor Clinton made no move to alter the policy. When anti-abortion forces pushed for a constitutional amendment to codify the prohibition, Mr. Clinton questioned the need, saying "We don't use any state money for abortions." Arkansas voters narrowly defeated the amendment in 1986, and approved it 52 to 48 percent in 1988.

In 1989, Mr. Clinton took an active part in modifying bills to require notification of both of parents before a minor's abortion. In recent interviews, the legislation's sponsors recalled Mr. Clinton's insistence on liberal exceptions in cases when one parent was absent or abusive, and his strengthening of the judicial bypass provision required under Supreme Court rulings.

Under his terms as present zero movement was made on codifying Roe as a right.

Obama also told women, specifically at speaking engagements for Planned Parenthood, that one of his top priorities was to codify Roe day one.

Here is his legacy on the matter [Politifact, June 1, 2012]:

After initially vowing to sign the Freedom of Choice Act, President Barack Obama quickly said it's not his "highest legislative priority."

That was in March 2009. Since then, it has scarcely been mentioned. A version of the bill was last introduced in Congress in 2007, and no new bill has appeared since.

We asked NARAL Pro-Choice America, an abortion rights group, to assess the progress on this issue.

"The protection of Roe v. Wade in federal law remains a long-term priority for NARAL Pro-Choice America and the pro-choice community. Unfortunately, the composition of Congress (including the first two years of President Obama's term) did not include enough pro-choice votes to pass legislation like the Freedom of Choice Act," NARAL said in a statement

Keep in mind, there were not enough pro-choice votes while Obama enjoyed a filibuster proof super majority. This means that not every democrat was pro choice, and they could not secure 100% buy in from the party.

Joe Biden ran on codifying Roe v Wade in 2020, but those efforts have stalled due to poor house and senate numbers [Politifact, March 7, 2004].

As his campaign ramped up in 2024 before he was outted as the presidential candidate, he again took up the mantal as a champion for Roe. His position is interesting, considering his personal stance on abortion. [ABC News, 2024]

The young Catholic politician who once said Roe v. Wade “went too far” — and who to this day remains uneasy with the procedure — is now casting himself as the only thing standing between women and strict national abortion bans.

But when it comes to issues like abortion, amnesty, and acid, I’m about as liberal as your grandmother. I don’t like the Supreme Court decision on abortion. I think it went too far. I don’t think that a woman has the sole right to say what should happen to her body.

[Washingtonian, 1974]

But now that he is out of the race, abortion is again back on the menu. One could wonder as well, what the state of things might look like if RBG took all the criticisms she had about the Roe decision to heart and retired under the Obama administration, allowing for a liberal president to add another liberal justice to the courts. However, its clear she was a prideful and arrogant justice, maybe the clout that came with Roe went to her head:

Ginsburg said that “anybody who thinks that if I step down, Obama could appoint someone like me, they’re misguided.” No one as liberal as she was could get confirmed, she suggested. She noted that her work production hadn’t slowed. “She had beaten the odds every day of her life and had weathered serious illness in 1999 and 2010,” Resnik says. “Fairly, from her perspective, she saw herself as able to manage the health challenges of aging.

[NYT, 2020]

"No one as liberal as she was could get confirmed, she suggested", really encapsulates just how arrogant she was. The very notion that somehow, the little girls inspired by her legacy, and now primed to take her place, would be less progressive then her rings as absurd. Only a over inflated sense of self could lead one to believe that.

It's not often you watch someone push themselves off the glass cliff. Because of her thick headedness we will never know if the repeal of Roe could have been stalled.

Democrats are the "Big Tent" party, and that includes homophobes and misogynists, and means even with a majority, you will not see Roe be put into law.

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It took three ER visits and 20 hours before a hospital admitted Nevaeh Crain, 18, as her condition worsened. Doctors insisted on two ultrasounds to confirm “fetal demise.” She’s one of at least two Texas women who died under the state’s abortion ban.

[-] RedWizard@hexbear.net 30 points 1 day ago

Sharpening the contradictions I see.

[-] RedWizard@hexbear.net 30 points 1 day ago

One can hope that other countries conclude to provide similar aid and relief to Cuba.

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Archive of the text from the announcement at the time of this post:

To the Twitch Community,

Over the past few weeks, we’ve seen members of the community voice concerns about how we handle potentially harmful content. There is no place on Twitch for racism, hatred, or harassment of any kind, including antisemitism and Islamophobia. As our community has grown, we’ve endeavored to build Community Guidelines to prohibit these harms.

Twitch is, and will always be, about belonging. Each day, people come together on our service to build communities around shared interests, and to express themselves authentically. For this to be possible, we work hard to ensure that our community is a safe place.

Our Community Guidelines are foundational, and when we find content that breaks those rules, we take immediate enforcement action. This will always be the case.

Millions of streamers, with a wide variety of views and perspectives, spend time on Twitch. We recognize that some content, while allowed on our service, may be objectionable to some members of our community. The views shared by streamers on Twitch are not the views of Twitch nor are they my personal views.

We’re grateful for the feedback and input from our community. Our safety approach continues to build and evolve, as our service grows. We want to ensure that anyone can find their place on Twitch, and remain committed to ensuring that hate and harassment have no place here.

  • Dan Clancy, Twitch CEO

Emphasis mine. This statement seems to take a defensive posture concerning the claims of "antisemitism" on the platform. However, with this message from the CEO of Twitch comes this announcement of changes to the platform regarding "Political Content and Sensitive Social Issues". [tweet]


Announcement Tweet


Explanation of new CCL guidelines


Screenshot of user settings page

The full classification, as seen on their website, is below for archival purposes.


Politics and Sensitive Social Issues

VII: Politics and Sensitive Social Issues

Twitch is a place for people to express themselves and discuss the world around them. We require streams to be labeled when the focus of the stream includes discussions and debates about political or sensitive social issues such as discussions about elections, civic integrity, war or military conflict, and civil rights. Examples of content that require a classification label include but are not limited to:

  • Streams featuring former or current political officials if the content includes discussions with these individuals around public policies
  • Live coverage or commentary on elections, civic processes, or election-related disputes
  • Livestreams of protests, rallies, or civil unrest related to civil rights issues or government policies
  • Discussing military conflicts, foreign policy decisions, or national security matters
  • Discussing ideological or socio-political views on topics like gender, race, sexuality, or religion
  • Discussing legislation related to a sensitive social issue such as reproductive rights, LGBTQ+ rights, or immigration

Labeling not required:

Streams containing informational or educational content that aim to share knowledge in a neutral, fact-based manner, rather than engaging in any kind of advocacy for an issue or candidate. For example, sharing the history of how votes in the US presidential election are counted to determine the next President, or merely encouraging individuals to vote or register to vote.

Intermittent mentions of politics, politicians, or sensitive social issues are not required to have the Politics and Sensitive Social Issues label.


It's clear that, to appease the forces of the Zionist Entity, Twitch is now allowing users and advertisers to "self-censor" by opting out of "Political Content and Sensitive Social Issues". However, the loose definition of this category and the caveat at the end of the definition leave a lot to be desired.

Intermittent mentions of politics, politicians, or sensitive social issues are not required to have the Politics and Sensitive Social Issues label.

Feels as though this will leave all the "Gamer" chuds out of the category as they rail on the inclusion of black, trans, queer, etc. people within their games. Does this constitute "intermittent mentions"? Does this fall under "critique"? Who can say.

Also, under "labeling not required" we have this gem:

"Streams containing informational or educational content that aim to share knowledge in a neutral, fact-based manner, rather than engaging in any kind of advocacy for an issue or candidate"

Meanwhile, "Discussing ideological or socio-political views on topics like gender, race, sexuality, or religion" will land you in the "Political" gulag. I wonder, would hosting a stream containing informational and educational content regarding the history of oppression of the queer population be something that does not require a label? Or would the telling of that history be too "ideological or socio-political" in nature and require the "Political" label? How does one tell the history of slavery in America in a "neutral" way?

This might not cause the kinds of "waves" that the Hot Tub / Pool Party / Beach / Bikini / Artistic Nudity meta did. I'm not sure if we'll see the same kind of reversal of policy or excessive policy reworks happening as a result of this change. It does materially impact most of the "political" streamers by allowing advertisers to opt out of those broadcasts, but it remains to be seen how much of an impact that will have on those individuals.

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What do your weekly meals look like for you and your fam? I generally enjoy cooking, what I don't enjoy is the negotiations that come with cooking, and with kids, it's even worse. I'm also the kind of person that could eat the same 5 dishes for a year without much fuss or question. That's the ADHD lodged in my brain for you.

The negotiation, or even the anticipation of negotiations, makes me agitated. If I could, I'd be a food dictator, but that's not how living with people works. It's annoying enough to me that I often push it to the back of my mind and just "figure it out" on the fly. That's not conducive to making good choices, though, only convenient choices.

If I'm going to do most of the cooking, I'll want a schedule of meals, so I can both plan, anticipate, and head-off any objections. I struggle with being assertive on this point, and I'm told often, "We don't need to do that much planning." Which, as someone with ADHD into my late 30s, I know is not true, and I do need that much planning if not more. Structure is something I need, and the kids at this age obviously thrive off structure as well.

So anyway, how do you tackle this? I need to get this sorted out for myself, but also for my kiddos. Kiddo 1 just had an annual checkup and is low on iron, and is growing increasingly picky about food. Kiddo 2 is still in that "I'll try anything in front of me." phase, and getting this sorted out now hopefully means I can avoid the pickiness down the line.

I'm going to cross post this in !neurodiverse@hexbear.net & !food@hexbear.net as I think it has some clear overlap.

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Yes, shiori.redwizard.party is a domain I own.

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Osborn’s success also shows that traditional New Deal Democratic ideas—a higher minimum wage, taxes on the rich, support for labor, skepticism of corporate power—remain popular with independents and even some Republicans, while the Democratic Party’s coastal brand remains a drag worth upwards of 20 points or more.

At least someone is learning the lessons the Democrats refuse to pay attention to. It'll be interesting to see if this back to basics approach is successful here, and if so, whether its success can be replicated.

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Which one would you guess if any?

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